My own Quotes

Life to experience.. Happy and sad, laugh and tear. Up and down. Like surfing. Life is full when i experience both sides. Rich and not. Easy and hard. ( 23 November 2025 by Brigitta Stellani Sukamto). The reason i live is to experience what life may give me 💖❤💖❤💖❤ 

Put Yourself First 🥇 or Put Others First?

🌟 — and for you, with North Node in Aries (2nd House), the clear answer is:

👉 Put yourself first.

Here’s why:

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🔹 Your Soul Path (North Node Aries, 2nd House)

• Lesson: learning to stand independently, claim your worth, and lead without leaning on others.

• Past life pattern (South Node in Libra, 8th House): you used to prioritize others — relying on partnerships, giving too much, or losing yourself in relationships.

• This life’s task: flip the script. Build your own resources, decisions, and confidence first.

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🔹 What “Putting Yourself First” Really Means

• Not selfishness, but self-priority: “I fill my cup first, then I can share with others.”

• In practice:

  • Secure your money, travel, and business goals before giving energy to others’ needs.

  • Set boundaries like you did  — friendship, yes; limitations, no.

  • Choose partnerships that support your growth, not ones that drain you.

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🔹 The Balance

• First: Yourself (Aries / 2nd House) → your resources, independence, freedom.

• Then: Others (Libra / 8th House) → once you’re strong, you can help, but from a place of strength, not sacrifice.

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✨ Destiny Formula for You:
Self-worth + independence → attracts the right people → creates balanced, supportive partnerships.

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22 Agustus 2025 :

I get a question from my partners: why you love putting real pictures on game? Why you love uploading pictures on social media? Are you searching attention?

My answer: dear, that's my achievement. I pay for it. I work hard and I enjoy my success. It's nothing to do with other's perception. 

And I get bored extremely easily. I can't stand with the same profile picture 🖼️ for days! Even when i was at school. I changed my loose leaf books 📚 everyday! People also asked me why like what you do! 😜 

Rabu,  Juli 2025 : Once you go flagship, you're not going back .. once you go flagship, there's no going back 😉 ❤️ ❤️ 

Flagship Phone 📱

Flagship Business

Flagship Life 

14 Mei 2024 : ' Living in Harmony ' 

🍾 stay busy, stay happy 

🍷 Don't have desires..you get everything automatically.. ( famous, success, money 💰 😉 come their ways)

🍾 Life is full of choices

🍾 Life is about making decisions everytime.. decide to mad, to be happy, to work, to learn, to do business. Life is only about making decisions 😜 

🍾 Live as it you will die in one hour

Decision making needs :

🐦 Researches 

🐦 Reasoning

🐦 What's important 

🍻 Time is limited. Use your time only to LEARN WHAT YOU NEED :)

Explanation: I love Learning like almost everything. Then I realized my time was consumed for things that didn't serve my goals. My needs. So many knowledges out there. Will take more than 200 years to learn for sure. 

So, I set my focus to check what I do is correct and align with my FOCUS or no. If not, leave it. 😜 It's not easy btw. But I have to. We don't live forever ♾️ 

🎉 only chase what gives you positive energy

〽️ ❤️ I love my life 💗🧬 it's full of surprises, adventures, new places, new things to see, to taste, to touch. I am soooooo lucky 🥰❤️😍