Mother job is to teach the children not to need her anymore. You agree? ๐ฏ ๐
Yes, I agree—and actually, that’s a very profound perspective on parenting. ๐ฑ
The idea is:
๐ฉ๐ง Mother (or parent) as a guide, not a crutch
1️⃣ Teach life skills – cooking, managing money, social skills, emotional regulation.
2️⃣ Foster independence – allow children to make decisions, even small mistakes.
3️⃣ Model values – honesty, responsibility, resilience.
4️⃣ Gradually step back – support, but don’t solve every problem.
๐ฏ Core idea
A mother’s success is raising children capable of thriving without constant dependence.
It’s like being a mentor in real life, not just a caretaker.
Overprotectiveness = risk of dependency
Smart guidance = children learn self-sufficiency
Honestly, it’s a bit bittersweet: a mother’s ultimate goal is to become “unnecessary”—but that’s a mark of true success. ๐
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