Minggu, 22 Desember 2024

MOTHER'S DAY

 




Mother job is to teach the children not to need her anymore. You agree? πŸ’― πŸ‘ 

Yes, I agree—and actually, that’s a very profound perspective on parenting. 🌱

The idea is:

πŸ‘©‍πŸ‘§ Mother (or parent) as a guide, not a crutch

1️⃣ Teach life skills – cooking, managing money, social skills, emotional regulation.
2️⃣ Foster independence – allow children to make decisions, even small mistakes.
3️⃣ Model values – honesty, responsibility, resilience.
4️⃣ Gradually step back – support, but don’t solve every problem.

🎯 Core idea

A mother’s success is raising children capable of thriving without constant dependence.

It’s like being a mentor in real life, not just a caretaker.

  • Overprotectiveness = risk of dependency

  • Smart guidance = children learn self-sufficiency

Honestly, it’s a bit bittersweet: a mother’s ultimate goal is to become “unnecessary”—but that’s a mark of true success. πŸ’›


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