SOLO TRAVELLERS TRAVELLED ALONE

SHOULD I USE ENGLISH or LOCAL LANGUAGES?

Many reported online. Especially if they are from Indonesia.. Hongkong isn't friendly. Rude..

My first question ❓ ⁉️ what language do you use? Mandarin? They say yes Mandarin.

Well, because you speak 🙊 🗣️ Mandarin. Hahaha 🤣. Most people will think you come from mainland China. 

Well I speak 🙊 🗣️ in English and they treat me very good. When a restaurant is full 🌕 🌝, a waitress ask people who has finished eating to go and give the the place to me. Even say " bye bye and smile to me ". They assume I am from Western country Haha 😆 

How about KOREA? I heard it's racist too. Well, here's the formula :

Speak English when visiting Asian countries that look up to Western world 🌎 ( Hongkong, Korea). They will treat you more kindly 👍👍👍

Speak Japanese 🍙 🍡 when visiting Japan..

Speak the local languages when visiting developing countries ( Thailand, Vietnam, Indonesia). If you speak English, you'll get "dollar price " 😆= which means expensive 

Use your brain 🧠 and tricks to decide and what language to use..

Special for East Asia 🌏 especially Korea :

Colorism and racism can be issues in South Korea, particularly toward Southeast Asians and people with darker skin tones. Many Koreans associate lighter skin with beauty and higher social status, a belief deeply rooted in historical and cultural factors. This can sometimes result in biases against people with darker skin, including Southeast Asians.  

Some Southeast Asians, especially workers from countries like the Philippines, Vietnam, and Indonesia, have reported discrimination in workplaces, dating, and daily interactions. There have been cases where Southeast Asians were stereotyped as lower-class laborers, and some have faced difficulties in renting apartments or getting service in certain places.  

That said, not all Koreans hold these views. Younger generations and more globally aware individuals tend to be more open-minded and accepting. Also, how you are treated might depend on factors like how you present yourself, the social circles you engage in, and the places you visit.  

===> Use English! 😉 

MY EXPERIENCES ABROAD

Actually I have never travelled alone abroad.. We usually book 📕📚📔and manage our own because we like visiting spots that most people don't. Hidden gems.. It's true that even book a ticket🎟 and visa thing can be costy with travel ✈️️agent! 

But I consider to use them in the case like this :

☀️ Korea 🇰🇷visa 900k IDR. But I have to come to jakarta and stay a night at least will cost me 1,2 m = total 2,1 million IDR just to travel alone. While through agent tour travel.. The price is 1,5 m IDR. 

I PREFER TO BOOK A DRIVER AND A TOUR 

I like travelling with a person. Don't like staying alone 😞 I would rather book 📚 📖 a private driver 😕 Haha 😆 🤣 

Yes, that can help strengthen your visa application! If you book a **driver, travel agent, or guided tours**, it shows that your trip is well-organized and planned, which makes you look like a genuine tourist rather than someone trying to overstay.  

### **How to Use This in Your Visa Application:**  

✔ **Book a tour package or driver service** in advance and keep the receipts/emails as proof.  

✔ **Mention in your application/interview** that you’ve arranged transportation and assistance to make your trip smoother.  

✔ **Prepare a detailed itinerary** with hotel bookings, planned activities, and return flight confirmation.  

✔ **If possible, get a letter from the travel agent or driver** confirming their service.  

This helps because many solo female travelers face more scrutiny, and having a structured plan reassures the visa officer that you're a genuine tourist.  

ALTERNATIVE BESIDES COUCHSURFING 

BeWelcome.org → Mirip Couchsurfing, tapi gratis tanpa biaya keanggotaan

Trustroots.org → Komunitas traveler yang menawarkan tumpangan gratis

TOURS

In San Francisco and Las Vegas... Use GetYourGuide 

It's a formal and can be showed to the embassy. Because it has fees. . 

1. **Traveling Alone and Embassy Concerns:** Traveling solo as a female is generally not an issue for the U.S. embassy. As long as your visa application is complete and you can demonstrate your travel intentions and financial capacity, traveling alone should not be a problem. Security during your trip can be managed with proper planning and precautions.

2. **Finding a Travel Buddy or Traveling Solo:**  

   - **Finding a Travel Buddy:** You could join travel groups or use platforms like Meetup, Facebook travel groups, or apps like Bumble BFF to connect with potential travel companions. Look for travel forums specifically for people visiting the U.S.  

   - **Traveling Independently:** Solo travel can be empowering and offers more flexibility. To ensure safety:  

     - Research safe neighborhoods and accommodations.  

     - Share your itinerary with trusted friends or family.  

     - Use public transport apps and stay connected online for navigation.  

     - Opt for group tours at your destination for company and safety.  

Would you like suggestions on how to structure your solo trip or tips on meeting travel buddies?

TRAVEL BUDDIES 😀😉

### Tips for Structuring Your Solo Trip  

1. **Choose Safe and Popular Destinations:**  

   Opt for cities known to be traveler-friendly, such as New York, San Francisco, Los Angeles, or Chicago. Research their safety levels and avoid high-crime areas.  

2. **Plan an Itinerary:**  

   - Decide your must-visit attractions and plan activities for each day.  

   - Mix solo explorations with guided tours to socialize and feel secure.  

3. **Book Safe Accommodations:**  

   - Look for hostels, hotels, or Airbnb stays with high ratings and reviews.  

   - Consider accommodations that cater to solo female travelers.  

4. **Use Reliable Transport:**  

   - Rely on ride-sharing apps like Uber or Lyft for short distances.  

   - Learn about public transport systems for cost-effective travel.  

   - Avoid walking alone late at night, especially in unfamiliar areas.  

5. **Pack Smartly:**  

   - Carry minimal valuables and use anti-theft bags.  

   - Keep copies of important documents (passport, visa) in different locations.  

6. **Stay Connected:**  

   - Use international SIM cards or eSIMs for consistent internet access.  

   - Share your live location with family or friends through apps like WhatsApp or Find My.  

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### Tips for Finding a Travel Buddy  

1. **Join Travel Communities:**  

   - Check out platforms like Couchsurfing, TravelBuddy, or Tourlina (designed for female travelers).  

   - Facebook groups like *Girls Love Travel* or *Female Solo Travelers* can be helpful.  

2. **Attend Local Meetups:**  

   Upon arrival, consider joining city tours or group activities to meet fellow travelers.  

3. **Use Trusted Forums:**  

   - Post your travel plans on Reddit communities like r/TravelPartners or r/SoloTravel.  

   - Be specific about your travel dates, budget, and interests.  

4. **Travel With a Purpose:**  

   - Join programs like volunteering, cultural exchange, or educational workshops. These often attract solo travelers.  

5. **Screen Carefully:**  

   - Vet your travel buddy by discussing travel styles, budgets, and interests in advance.  

   - Video call before finalizing any plans to gauge comfort levels.  

Would you like me to help you explore specific platforms for connecting with travel buddies or create a sample itinerary?

PLATFORMS 😀 📑 

Here’s more about the platforms you can use to find travel buddies or make connections during your trip:

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### 1. **Couchsurfing**  ;; I have to pay and people gave rating 1 star ✨ 

   **Website/ App:** [Couchsurfing](https://www.couchsurfing.com)  

   - **What it Offers:**  

     Couchsurfing is a global community of travelers where you can find locals willing to host you for free or meet up for coffee and tours. It’s ideal for connecting with people who know your destination well.  

   - **How to Use:**  

     - Create a profile with details about yourself and your travel plans.  

     - Search for hosts or events in the city you’re visiting.  

     - Send personalized requests to connect with locals or fellow travelers.  

   - **Safety Tips:**  

     - Read host reviews and select well-rated profiles.  

     - Use the "Hangouts" feature to meet others nearby for group activities.  

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### 2. **TravelBuddy**  :: website isn't private.. and it seems from India. I am not sure it works globally?

   **Website/ App:** [TravelBuddy](https://www.travel-buddy.com)  

   - **What it Offers:**  

     TravelBuddy is a platform to find travel companions globally based on destination, date, and interests. It connects you with people who want to travel to the same place at the same time.  

   - **How to Use:**  

     - Register and set up a travel plan (destination, dates, budget).  

     - Browse profiles of other travelers with similar plans.  

     - Chat with them directly through the app to coordinate trips.  

   - **Key Features:**  

     - Local buddies who can guide you.  

     - Option to create group plans with multiple people.  

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### 3. **Tourlina** (Designed for Female Travelers)  

   **Website/ App:** [Tourlina](https://www.tourlina.com)  

   - **What it Offers:**  

     Tourlina is a travel app exclusively for women, making it safer and more comfortable for solo female travelers to find travel partners.  

   - **How to Use:**  

     - Sign up and complete a verification process to ensure security.  

     - Enter your travel destination, dates, and preferences.  

     - Swipe to find and match with other women with similar travel interests.  

   - **Safety Features:**  

     - Matches only verified users.  

     - Messaging is allowed only when both parties agree to connect.  

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### Recommendations for Usage  

1. **Build a Detailed Profile:** Include interests, travel style (luxury or budget), and any important preferences.  

2. **Communicate Clearly:** Set expectations about expenses, activities, and responsibilities.  

3. **Meet in Public:** Arrange to meet your buddy in a safe, public place first before traveling together.  

Would you like guidance on setting up a profile on any of these platforms? Or perhaps you’d like suggestions on a safe U.S. itinerary?

IS IT SAFE, COUCHSURFING

While CouchSurfing is designed as a platform for cultural exchange and community building, it is not immune to misuse. There have been occasional reports of inappropriate behavior, scams, or even criminal activities, including potential links to human trafficking. However, these cases are rare compared to the vast number of positive experiences shared by users. Here’s what you should consider to stay safe:

1. Be Vigilant and Do Research

• Read Reviews and Profiles: Only stay with well-reviewed and verified hosts. Pay close attention to negative feedback or missing details.
• Check Identity Verification: Look for profiles with verified IDs and references from other travelers.
• Avoid New or Inactive Accounts: These might be less trustworthy.

2. Communicate Clearly

• Set Expectations: Clarify arrangements and boundaries beforehand.
• Trust Your Instincts: If something feels off, don’t proceed.

3. Share Your Plans

• Inform Someone: Share your host's details, location, and plans with a trusted friend or family member.
• Use Tracking Apps: Consider apps like Life360 or Find My Friends for safety.

4. Prioritize Female-Only Hosts (if applicable)

Some women prefer staying with female hosts to feel safer. CouchSurfing has filters to help with this.

5. Stay in Public Spaces Initially

Meet in a public place first to gauge comfort levels before agreeing to stay at their home.

If you ever feel uncomfortable or unsafe, trust your instincts and leave. Always prioritize your security and well-being over social or financial pressures.