American People & AMERICA COUNTRY

Here are some common examples of double negatives used in everyday (informal or dialect) American English:

🔹 1. “I ain’t got no time.”

Meaning: I don’t have any time.

🔹 2. “She don’t know nothing.”

Meaning: She doesn’t know anything.

🔹 3. “We can’t do no more.”

Meaning: We can’t do any more.

🔹 4. “He didn’t see nobody.”

Meaning: He didn’t see anybody.

🔹 5. “They won’t tell you nothing.”

Meaning: They won’t tell you anything.

🔹 6. “There ain’t nowhere to go.”

Meaning: There isn’t anywhere to go.

🔹 7. “You don’t want no trouble.”

Meaning: You don’t want any trouble.

🔹 8. “I can’t find nothing.”

Meaning: I can’t find anything.

“Southern U.S. English” generally refers to the dialects spoken in the American South, covering a wide region. Here are the main states:

🌵 Core Southern States

These are the states most strongly associated with Southern English:

• Alabama

• Georgia

• Mississippi

• Louisiana

• South Carolina

• North Carolina

• Tennessee

• Kentucky

• Arkansas

• Virginia

🌴 Extended Southern / Border Southern

These states also have Southern English influence, but with mixed accents:

• Texas (especially East Texas)

• Oklahoma

• West Virginia

• Northern Florida (the Panhandle)

🌞 Not really Southern

But often confused:

• South Florida (Miami area) – accent is not Southern at all

• Missouri – mixed accent, only southern part sounds somewhat Southern

🎤 Variation Inside the South

Even within each state, accents vary:

• Texas → very distinct Texas drawl

• Louisiana → Cajun and Creole English (unique)

• Appalachia → very strong features, including double negatives

• Coastal Carolinas/Georgia → Gullah influence in some communities

Double negative statement in the Us like I didn't do nothing instead of I didn't do anything 

In the U.S., sentences like “I didn’t do nothing” are called double negatives. Here’s what you need to know:

✅ 1. Where it's used

This style appears mainly in:

• African American Vernacular English (AAVE)

• Southern U.S. English

• Some rural or working-class dialects across the country

• Certain East Coast cities (e.g., New York, parts of New Jersey)

It is not specific to Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania.

✅ 2. Meaning

Even though it's a double negative, in these dialects it simply means:
➡️ “I didn’t do anything.”

It’s grammatically normal within those dialects. It’s not a mistake for them.

✅ 3. Is it low class?

Not exactly. It’s more about dialect, not class.

• In formal standard English, double negatives are considered incorrect.

• In informal speech and certain cultural groups, it is completely normal and accepted.

So it's not “low class”—it’s linguistic style, tied to region and culture.

Examples:

• “I ain’t got no money.” → means I don’t have any money.

• “She didn’t say nothing.” → means She didn’t say anything.

Madison Avenue 🏙️ is a famous street in New York City, especially known as the historic center of the American advertising industry.

Here’s the essence:

📍 Location

• Runs north-south on the East Side of Manhattan, between Park Avenue and Fifth Avenue.

📢 Meaning

• “Madison Avenue” became a metaphor for the advertising world, just like “Wall Street” = finance, and “Hollywood” = movies.

• In the mid-20th century, many big ad agencies had headquarters there.

🎨 Culture & Pop Influence

• The TV show Mad Men (set in the 1960s) is about ad executives on Madison Avenue.

• The street name is often used to describe glamorous, persuasive, sometimes manipulative advertising.

🛍️ Today

• Fewer ad firms are based there now (many moved), but Madison Avenue is still a high-end shopping district with luxury brands and boutiques.

👉 So when people say “Madison Avenue”, they usually mean the advertising industry itself—the art of selling through persuasion, image, and creativity.

Correct ✅ The Bronx and Brooklyn are two different boroughs of New York City.

New York City has five boroughs:

1. 🗽 Manhattan

2. 🏙️ Brooklyn (Kings County)

3. 🏘️ Queens

4. 🌉 Bronx

5. 🌳 Staten Island

• Brooklyn is south of Manhattan, famous for the Brooklyn Bridge, Brooklyn Nets 🏀, and its trendy neighborhoods.

• The Bronx is north of Manhattan, known for Yankee Stadium ⚾ and as the birthplace of hip-hop.

So while both are part of New York City, they’re separate areas with their own identity.

👉 

Got it 👍 You’re describing something very common in American culture.

In the U.S., many people grow up with the idea that:

• Direct communication is healthy → If there’s a problem, they often want to talk about it openly instead of keeping it inside.

• Fights/arguments don’t always mean the relationship is broken → They see it as part of expressing feelings. Afterward, they usually want to explain themselves and move on.

• Forgiveness is fast → Once an issue is talked through, many Americans don’t like to “stay angry” for long. They often go back to normal quickly, almost like pressing a reset button.

• Individual space is important → Sometimes they might cool down alone, then come back ready to resolve things.

• Action matters more than apology words → Americans often appreciate an explanation, a solution, or changed behavior more than just saying “sorry.” ==> very me 

So the cycle you feel — argue → explain → forgive → back to good — is very much in line with how many Americans handle home or relationship conflict.

✨ In Indonesia (or Asia generally), conflicts are sometimes avoided or smoothed over quietly, but in the U.S. it’s often more open, quick, and straightforward.

🙌 the difference is really interesting! Here’s a simple comparison between Indonesia vs. America when it comes to home conflict / arguments:

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🇮🇩 Indonesia (Asian style)

• Avoiding open fight → Many Indonesians prefer diam dulu (stay quiet) rather than argue openly. Silence can be a way to cool down.

• Indirect communication → People may hint, sulk (ngambek), or show through actions instead of direct words.

• Harmony-focused → The goal is to keep peace in the family, so sometimes the real issue doesn’t get spoken out directly.

• Forgiveness takes time → Often, conflict is “forgotten” gradually, not solved immediately.

• Respect for hierarchy → Age, gender, or family roles affect how freely one can argue. For example, a wife may avoid arguing openly with her husband in front of others.

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🇺🇸 America (Western style)

• Direct confrontation → They often say what’s bothering them immediately. “I don’t like this” or “That upset me.”

• Open discussion → Talking it out is seen as healthy, even if voices get loud.

• Quick resolution → After explaining and apologizing, they like to “move on” and not hold grudges.

• Equality in arguing → Both partners feel they can speak their mind, no matter age or gender.

• Personal boundaries → Sometimes they need space (go for a walk, close the door) then return calmer to fix it.

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✨ Key difference:

• In Indonesia, conflict often gets softened, delayed, or “hidden under the carpet” to maintain harmony.

• In America, conflict is faced more directly, then released quickly so life can go on.

That’s why with your American partner, you may feel arguments happen openly, but the forgiveness also comes fast 💙.

I do love Americans. And this is one of the best video if you want to know about Americans ( especially the old day) and the history 

https://youtu.be/Wk1nrgm55gQ?si=GKkVqV1fUdqnO63q

THEY WANT A COMMITMENT, A MARRIAGE💍

At least some of them proposed me.. 

It’s an interesting observation, and you're not alone in noticing that many Americans are highly focused on marriage, even though divorce rates are relatively high. There are a few reasons why marriage is often seen as an important goal in American culture, despite the challenges it can bring:

1. Cultural Norms and Expectations

• Marriage as a Milestone: In American culture, marriage is often seen as a key life milestone, something that many people aspire to. It is closely tied to societal expectations, family traditions, and even religious beliefs.

• Idealized in Media and Society: Movies, TV shows, and books often portray marriage as the ultimate form of love, which can lead people to prioritize it in their lives, sometimes without fully understanding what it entails.

2. Legal and Financial Benefits

• Tax and Health Benefits: Marriage in the U.S. can offer various legal and financial advantages, such as tax breaks, health insurance benefits, inheritance rights, and more.

• Social Security Benefits: Married couples may qualify for social security benefits if one spouse dies, and divorcees can often still collect benefits based on their former spouse’s work record.

3. Emotional and Social Security

• Commitment and Stability: Marriage provides a sense of emotional security and commitment, especially in a society where personal relationships can sometimes feel uncertain. Some individuals seek the social recognition that comes with being married.

• Child Rearing: In some cases, marriage is seen as the best foundation for raising children, although this idea has evolved significantly in recent years.

4. Divorce Rates and Changing Views

• Divorce Stigma Easing: While divorce rates are high, it’s also worth noting that divorce is becoming less stigmatized. People may see it as a way to escape unhealthy or unfulfilling relationships. This doesn’t necessarily mean people don't value marriage—it just reflects that the commitment to marriage doesn't always align with long-term success.

• Changing Views on Marriage: Younger generations, especially millennials and Gen Z, tend to delay marriage or choose to cohabit instead. Some see marriage as a choice that may not be necessary for everyone, given the high divorce rates and changing social norms.

5. The Desire for a Lifelong Partner

• Romantic Ideals: Despite the high divorce rates, many still seek the idea of "happily ever after" with a lifelong partner. There’s a strong desire for companionship, intimacy, and shared life goals.

• Cultural Influence from Family and Friends: In some American communities, the pressure to marry can come from family or friends, even if they’ve experienced their own divorces.

Ultimately, marriage holds different meanings for different people. While some may marry because of cultural or familial pressure, others truly want it for the emotional connection, security, and partnership it can provide. If you're seeing patterns of divorce, it's likely because societal views on marriage have evolved, and people are now more willing to prioritize their happiness and well-being over staying in an unhappy union.

Would you like to dive deeper into how cultural differences affect marriage and divorce rates, or how you might navigate relationships in a way that aligns with your values?

HOURS ❤️ 🥰 especially East Coaster 🎢 

Spring 🌼 🌱 foward +1 hour.. 

Fall 🍂 🍁 back - 1 hour.. 

For example in my country is 10.00 am..in spring 🌼 🌱 is 11.00 pm in the US and 10.00 pm in the fall. 

Based on my experiences 😉🤠

🤠 they talk so much with their ways. I mean not like in regular English, they have slangs and they have their own world 🌎 hahaha.. 

🤠 They aren't easily to get approached at first. They seem like cool guy. You can talk but not so deep at first. But once you're close, they see you as their buddy 😜

🤠 Generous 💝 

🤠 They like jokes , they like something funny. And if they talk, they may seem harsh. A freedom of speech. 

🤠 Extrovert 

🤠 they take every words about racism as serious. And some words are considered disrespect to them. The tolerance level is not so high about words. While if they are mad, they use words and pictures to speak badly 😜 

Look at this joke 🤣😜

NIXON, GOLD, FEDERAL RESERVE, FIAT CURRENCY 💲 💵 ARE EXPLAINED HERE

FIAT is backed by nothing 

Ponzi scheme: instead of using the money 🤑 💰 for investment. Orang berikutnya membayar untuk pendapatan orang awal. Lalu yang create sistem nya ambil bagian tiap ada member baru 

Naik gaji orang merasa senang = padahal itu artinya kemampuan beli mereka menurun! Inflasi! 

Now 2025 : 40 years Fiat experience is coming to end 🔚 

Printing money 💰= short term solution for economy . Long term = it doesn't solve the problems 

Hyperinflation: people will have difficulty to buy tangible things ==> means I have to invest for something tangible ( self sufficient). Urgency. 

Hyperinflation

Gold 🏆: if you don't hold it. You don't own it 

Comment: wake up Syria 10 USD for a bread 🥪 🍞 after work 50 USD per bread 🥪 🍞: this is an analogy... 

The government play one trick, they don't know how to solve crisis . Don't depend on them for solution  let them print money.. Me and you can still have and buy gold 🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆

G. Edward Griffin ===> this person is so charming 🤩 💗 how he talks.. love it 😍 😍 

His quote *"To oppose corruption in government is the highest obligation of patriotism"* means that true love for your country isn't just about showing loyalty or pride — it's about standing up against wrongdoing, dishonesty, and abuse of power by those in charge.

In other words, a real patriot doesn't stay silent when they see their government harming people or acting unfairly. Instead, they speak out, demand justice, and work for honesty and accountability — because they care about the future and well-being of their country.

It’s like saying: *“Loving your country means protecting it from those who would destroy it from the inside.”*

https://youtu.be/6F7h1VJGp8w?si=jYjdaXzTxMxbFtBH