Me, My Shop, My Businesses, My Game, My Life: November 2023

Kamis, 30 November 2023

Rabu, 29 November 2023

Coconut 🥥 Kelapa

COCONUT DRINK

🥥 Kelapa muda biasa

🥥 Kelapa muda serat merah

Serat merah

Kelapa serat merah

⚠️ Kenapa Coconut Oil Bisa Bikin Kulit Kering:

Bersifat oklusif, bukan humektan
Coconut oil mengunci kelembapan, tapi tidak menambah air ke kulit. Kalau kulit kamu sedang kering dan kamu langsung oles coconut oil tanpa hidrasi dulu, minyaknya bisa malah "mengunci kekeringan".
Kulitmu tidak cocok / sensitif terhadap coconut oil
Sebagian orang punya kulit yang reaktif terhadap lauric acid (kandungan utama coconut oil), sehingga justru terasa kering, gatal, atau bahkan berjerawat.
Tipe coconut oil
Kalau kamu pakai refined (minyak kelapa olahan) atau yang kualitasnya rendah, hasilnya bisa tidak sebagus virgin coconut oil.

✅ Alternatif Oil yang Lebih Melembapkan (Tanpa Efek Kering):

Jojoba Oil
- Menyerupai sebum alami kulit
- Cocok untuk kulit kering & sensitif
Argan Oil
- Kaya vitamin E, lembut & tidak menyumbat pori
- Bagus untuk wajah & tubuh
Marula Oil
- Ringan tapi sangat melembapkan
- Cocok untuk kulit dehidrasi
Squalane (berasal dari tanaman atau zaitun)
- Ultra ringan, cepat meresap, tidak menyumbat pori
- Aman untuk semua jenis kulit
Rosehip Oil
- Cocok untuk regenerasi kulit & bekas luka
- Tapi pakai di malam hari karena sensitif cahaya

💧 Tips Pemakaian agar Kulit Tidak Kering:

Gunakan saat kulit masih sedikit lembap (misal setelah mandi)
Atau gunakan hydrating toner / aloe vera gel dulu, baru kunci dengan oil

Kalau kamu sebutkan tipe kulitmu (kering, sensitif, kombinasi, dll), aku bisa bantu carikan oil atau kombinasi terbaik yang cocok dan gak bikin kering. Mau? 😊

COCONUT OIL

is not my best friend 🥺 😜 only a little amount yes 😋 but I sell it per bottle 🍾

https://tokopedia.link/M10B7TU7MIb

COCONUT CAFE PALAGAN

9 June 2025 Coconut Drink Air Kelapa

Batok Kelapa

RESTAURANTS LIST

Iconic

https://palastrishop.blogspot.com/2023/10/iconic-superheroes-restaurant.html

Sabin

https://palastrishop.blogspot.com/2023/09/sabin-restaurant.html

Sooji

https://palastrishop.blogspot.com/2023/06/sooji.html

Taman Agung

https://palastrishop.blogspot.com/2023/07/kepiting-taman-agung-restaurant.html

Warung Teduh

Yamas Restaurant Cavinton Hotel

Front gate , so beautiful 🤩❤️

Wall decoration.. after you go out from the lift 🛗, this is the first view you see. Then you walk to the left and go to the front gate

Bar area

Outdoor area

Food and drink , yummy 😋

Outdoor area

I made review on Google maps too :

Yamas Sky Cafe https://g.co/kgs/hphiEW

Outdoor area

Mirror 🪞 design in front of the bathroom

Christmas 🎄🎁 tree

Window design

Photo spot , outdoor area

Selasa, 28 November 2023

Bomb 💣

💣 Uranium 235 is the most ideal for making bombs 💣

💣 Plutonium 239

💣 Thorium :: dia yg banyak dipakai saat ini. Tidak efisien untuk bikin bomb 💣💣💥 tapi paling less waste

Saat ini pemilik thorium terbanyak adalah India dan negara negara lain sedang cari

JUPITER

Jupiter is a planet of expanding, teaching..

You use your index 👉☝️ finger when you're mad and want to teach / talk to someone , you point with that 👉☝️ index finger.

Why? Because index 👉☝️ finger represents Jupiter = planet of teaching

Great focus 🌍✨ between 2025–2028 you’re in a “bridge era” — preparing for your massive 9th house Jupiter cycle (2028–2029). Let’s check year by year:

🔮 2025 – Jupiter in Gemini (your 4th house, conjunct Mars = 9th ruler)

Apr–May 2025 already perfect (your Southeast Asia trip).
Jupiter over Mars = activates international movement.
This year = excellent for meaningful trips that reset your foundations.
✅ Good for: Asia trips, scouting for future bigger journeys.

🔮 2026 – Jupiter in Virgo (your 7th house)

Travel is supported through partners, collaborations, Rotary, or contracts.
If you’re invited to Europe/US by an organization, this year is good.
✅ Best timing: Sep–Oct 2026 (Jupiter direct, strong in Virgo).

🔮 2027 – Jupiter still in Virgo → then enters Libra (your 8th house in Oct 2027)

First half of 2027 → travel via partnerships continues.
Late 2027 into 2028 → Libra 8th house = travel linked to funding, sponsorships, fellowships, NGO programs.
✅ Best timing: late 2027 – early 2028, if you want international programs/sponsored travel.

🔮 2028 – Jupiter fully in Libra, approaching Scorpio

You’ll feel the pull toward bigger travel.
Likely: trips connected to preparation for 9th house cycle (conferences, cultural connections).
✅ Best timing: mid–late 2028 (right before Jupiter enters Scorpio in Nov).

🌟 Summary

2025 (Apr–May) → already great (Asia, foundation).
2026 (Sep–Oct) → Europe/US possible via partnerships.
Late 2027 – early 2028 → excellent if travel comes through funded/sponsored opportunities.
Nov 2028 onward → Jupiter in Scorpio (9th house) = the ultimate window for Europe & America.

👉 So between 2025–2028, the most perfect timing depends on purpose:

For pleasure + exploration → 2025.
For networking + partnership travel → 2026.
For funded/NGO/fellowship travel → late 2027–early 2028.
For life-changing expansion → late 2028–2029.

Okay ✨ let’s carefully look at your past big travel windows with Jupiter and see how they line up with your chart (Pisces rising → 9th house in Scorpio, Mars in Gemini ruling your 9th).

You told me your travel history:

Jan–Feb 2014 → Singapore
2016 → Malaysia, Hong Kong, Macau
Oct 2018 → Japan
Apr–May 2025 (planned) → Vietnam, Thailand, Taiwan, Japan

🔮 How each fits your chart

2014 (Jan–Feb) → Singapore

Jupiter was in Cancer, your 5th house of joy, fun, and creativity.
Cancer trines Scorpio (your 9th house) → easy flow of “pleasure travel.”
This trip was lighter, holiday-style, not deeply transformational → matches Jupiter in 5th.

2016 → Malaysia, HK, Macau

Jupiter in Virgo, your 7th house of partnerships.
Travel came through others: companions, invitations, or connections.
Not purely solo — fits your description.

2018 (Oct) → Japan

Jupiter in Scorpio, your 9th house.
This is textbook: long-distance, cultural, spiritual expansion.
Your top travel cycle of that decade.

2025 (Apr–May) → Vietnam, Thailand, Taiwan, Japan (planned)

Jupiter in Gemini, 4th house, conjunct your Mars in Gemini (ruler of 9th).
Travel gets reactivated because Jupiter “wakes up” your 9th ruler.
So while it’s not yet the big 9th house cycle, it’s still major international travel, but linked to foundations, family, or future plans.

✨ Pattern in your life

2014 (5th house joy travel)
2016 (7th house partnership travel)
2018 (9th house big destiny travel)
2025 (activation of 9th ruler, preparatory travel)
2028–2029 (next 9th house = HUGE travel expansion, possibly Europe + America)

So your “top travel years” always happen when:

Jupiter is in 9th house (Scorpio) → big, life-changing trips.
Jupiter touches your 9th house ruler (Mars in Gemini) → meaningful international journeys.
Jupiter makes easy aspects (like in 2014, Cancer trine Scorpio) → joyful lighter trips.

✅ Your biggest cycles so far:

2018 (Japan) = peak international experience.
2028–2029 = next top travel window (Europe + America very likely).

CREATE YOU

Get your Life in Order, asap

How can I serve the universe

Learn Hanya yang Kamu Butuhkan

🥪 Set a perfect ideal

🍞 Set up a Life that you don't need to escape from

Simplicity is the key in this life 🧬

Your time is precious 💞, only do precious thing.. waktu itu sangat berharga.. jangan biarkan orang mencuri waktumu.. pastikan kamu gunakan waktumu untuk sesuatu yang penting dan berfaedah..

Case : teman minta ketemuan tapi ga jelas mau ngapain. Cerita panjang lebar dan kamu kasih inspirasi.. dapat apa kamu? Ga ada kecuali hubungan pertemanan.. ( coba pertimbangkan dan tentukan.. apakah kegiatan tersebut adalah yang kamu butuhkan, berguna atau tidak?)

Dolores : .if you can see it in your mind, universe law , universe must give it to you, make it reality.. be specific, detail of what you want .

If I have to do this and that, you're limiting yourself . Just imagine it's already done ✅ 👍

Create and " This is what I want " ==> let's the universe create the magic 🪄 ✨

https://youtu.be/xtsc4WMYlbU?si=oL1hqw3CmCfiV_o2

Bullying & Revenge

I learned about Bazi ( Chinese astrology). And i saw 7K ( 7 killing there). Then I made some researches and found out that if a person ( bullier ) bullies a person ( victim ). There's a big possibility victim has the high 7K element. This is my theory.

We call this person as Borneo. A female kid. She is a yang metal person. She gets bullied. I can say there's a big chance possibility the bullier has wood day master.

If you heard crime stories , victims did revenge and kill the bulliers. Kill = 7k = 7 killing= pressure= job..

Now we can see the energy...

BULLIER:

why they bully? Because they are scared of the energy of a victim. Unconscious minds want to remove it ( read as bully ).. and usually in the future, the victims are the killers of the bulliers. Right?

We're living in this world with energies. It's Better to teach kids about energies so that they can use it perfectly. Learn to harmonize it..

In this case, the victim ( just by being there and silent ) already make wood 🪵🪓 bulliers afraid. It's better to have friends to neutralize the energies.

Then now you can see why most victims are alone. No friends.. i suggest you teach your kids to make friends so that it will soften the energy and avoid bullying.

But this is still my theory. And I checked it already and it's true. But I need bigger samples. I really hope in the future I can have access to do samplings to rest my theory and make this world a better place and easier and happier to live

REVENGE

How to pay your employees

I found some good videos :

How much time they can free you , for you to grow your business

https://youtube.com/shorts/PNUYU2SQWoY?si=zh5JaT2T2AWEaloz

KARYAWAN :

Saya capek didik karyawan, akhirnya outsourcing. Ternyata saya belajar bahwa kalau punya karyawan itu kita " beli " skill nya. Jadi bukan kita didik dia. Tapi apa yang bisa dia tawarkan untuk mempermudah kita.

Misalkan saya gaji marketing.. artinya saya pakai keahlian dia untuk pemetaan marketing. Bukan justru saya yang ajari dia ( ini saya belajar karena waktu awal buka toko, saya ajari semua dan malah capek kalau Gonta ganti dan mereka ga jago )

Ternyata itu seperti kita beli barang.

Apakah yang karyawan itu tawarkan. Baiknya kita gaji berapa dan apakah dia mendukung bisnis kita? Apakah dia bagus?

Dan daripada " mengurui " lebih baik kita belajar dari skill kita dan biarkan dia yang laporan/ eksekusi. Seperti yang Harald infokan

Sama seperti di game 🎮🎯 kita pakai vigilante, Renegade dst. Makin tinggi skill nya yang kita butuhkan.

Mindset saya disini berubah terkait karywan dan saya ingin punya sebanyaknya.

Belanda The Netherlands Dutch

Met a man from the club ( another branch ) and he showed me beautiful books

THE NETHERLANDS PEOPLE from my experiences :

💙 Direct , straight forward ⏩.. ( so, it's okay to ask or tell your opinions without sugar coating them)

PHRASES

ik ben kachel = saya mabuk berat..

VOCABULARIES

Abjad A

Allebai : both

Aardig : nice

Alles : everything

Alleen ( " alen " ) : only

Altijd : always

Achter : behind

Afdeling : department, section

Abjad B

Bestelt: order

Behalve : half

The difference between Boersma and de Boer. Here’s a clear explanation:

Boersma

Common Dutch surname, especially in Friesland (northern Netherlands).
The suffix “-sma” often means “son of” or “from the family of,” so it’s like “descendant of a farmer” (boer = farmer).

de Boer

Literally means “the farmer” in Dutch.
Very common surname in the Netherlands.

Summary:

Boersma → Frisian origin, “son/family of a farmer.”
de Boer → Standard Dutch, “the farmer.”

They’re related in meaning (both reference “farmer”), but Boersma is more Frisian and has the -sma suffix, while de Boer is plain Dutch.

Bedoel je ..? : do you mean..?

Bunda : ass

Buren : neighbors

Bijna : almost

👍 karena “bij” dan “bijna” mirip tulisannya tapi beda arti banget di Belanda.

📌 bij

Arti: di / pada / dekat dengan / bersama
Dipakai untuk lokasi atau kedekatan.
Contoh:
- Ik ben bij de dokter. → “Saya di dokter.”
- Ik ben bij mijn vriend. → “Saya di rumah teman saya / bersama teman saya.”

📌 bijna

Arti: hampir (almost dalam bahasa Inggris).
Dipakai untuk menunjukkan sesuatu hampir terjadi.
Contoh:
- Ik ben bijna thuis. → “Saya hampir sampai rumah.”
- Hij is bijna klaar. → “Dia hampir selesai.”

👉 Jadi bedanya:

bij = di / bersama (lokasi/posisi).
bijna = hampir (waktu/kondisi).

Contoh perbandingan biar jelas:

Ik ben bij het station. → “Saya di stasiun.”
Ik ben bijna bij het station. → “Saya hampir sampai di stasiun.”

“Bent u al bij Semoke?” berasal dari bahasa Belanda.
Mari kita uraikan per kata:

Bent = adalah / sudah (bentuk “zijn” → to be)
u = Anda (sapaan formal, sopan)
al = sudah
bij = di / dekat / ke (tergantung konteks)
Semoke = kemungkinan nama orang / tempat / toko (bukan kata Belanda asli).

📌 Jadi arti lengkapnya:
👉 “Apakah Anda sudah (sampai) di Semoke?” atau “Anda sudah ada di Semoke?”

❓

De bezem : 🧹 broom

Het blad: leaf 🍀🌿

Het been : bone 🦴 / legs

Beenderen : bones

Benen: legs

Boer : farmer

Blijven ( " bleiven " ) : to stay

Het bezoek : visit

Op bezoek: on a visit

Bruiloft: wedding 💍 💒

Borst : chest 🧰

Buik : belly

Boerderij ( " borderai " ) : farm

Dik : fat, thick

Hey dak : roof

Denken : to think

Duwen: push

Dat : that

Dekens ( " deiken " ) : blanket

Dertien ( " dertien " ) : 13

Dan : then

“Doe niet zo gek!”:

Doe = lakukan / lakukanlah (imperatif dari doen = melakukan)
niet = jangan / tidak
zo = begitu / sebegitu
gek = gila, aneh, konyol, ngawur

📌 Jadi kalau disusun:
“Doe niet zo gek!” = “Jangan (bertindak) begitu gila/aneh/konyol.”

👉 Dalam percakapan sehari-hari, artinya ringan dan lebih ke bercanda:

“Ah, jangan ngawur lah!”
“Udah deh, jangan aneh-aneh.”
“Kamu lucu banget, jangan lebay.”

Sip 🙌 ini beberapa variasi ekspresi yang mirip dengan “Doe niet zo gek!” (sama-sama dipakai buat bercanda kalau orang ngomong/bertingkah ngawur):

“Je doet raar.”
👉 “Kamu bertingkah aneh / ngawur deh.”
“Hou op joh!”
👉 “Udahlah!” / “Alaaah berhenti ah, ngawur kamu.” (buat bercanda).
“Je kletst maar wat.”
👉 “Kamu asal ngomong aja / ngomong ngawur.”
“Wat een onzin!”
👉 “Ngawur banget sih!” / “Omong kosong itu.”
“Je bent gek!”
👉 “Kamu gila (dalam arti lucu/gokil).”
“Doe normaal!”
👉 “Normal dong!” / “Udahlah jangan aneh-aneh.” (sering banget dipakai).

⚡ Catatan:

Kalau mau fun dan ringan, yang paling umum: “Doe niet zo gek!” dan “Je bent gek!”
Kalau agak serius/tegas: “Wat een onzin!” atau “Doe normaal!”

Doet boodschappen : puts.. on.. / buys groceries

Dure : expensive

Abjad E

Een beetje : a bit / a little bit

Erg : very

Etalage : window shop / etalase

Eigenlijk : actually/ really

Het ei : egg 🥚🍳

Eieren : eggs , 🍳 ( plural )

Echt : real, really

Eeuw : century

Abjad F

Fietst : bike 🚲 🚳 onze grootmoeder fietst graag : our grandmother Likes to bike 🚳 🚲 . Ik fiets

" Fitse " : bike 🚲 🚳

Fles : bottle 🍼 🍾

Abjad G :

Gezicht: pretty sight

Gezellig : pleasant

Getrouwd: married

Gaan naar : going to go. Wij gaan naar opa en oma ( we are going to go to opa and oma )

Gezicht: face

Geboren : born

Gemiddelde: average

Geluisterd : listened

Geregend : rained

Gisteren: yesterday ( ik HEB gisteren gespeeld: I played yesterday). Harus pakai beb

Gespeeld : played

Gewacht : waited

Gemaakt : made , wij hebben kaas gemaakt

Gekookt : cooked

Gevraagd : asked, requested

Gezet : put, established

Gehoord : heard

Geluid : sound , noise

Gerend: run

Gezegd = say . HEB Ik dat goed gezegd : did I say that correctly?

Gestopt : stop 🚏 🛑

Geprobeerd : tried , attempted

Geleerd : learned

Gewoond : lived

Gelegd : laid

Gebruikt : used

Grijze ( " khreize " ) : gray

Geregend : rained ( het heeft geregend : it rained )

Geprobeerd ( " kheprobird (: tried

Gemiddelde ( " khemidelde " : average

Gevangenis : prison

Gebouw : ( " khebou ) : building 🏢 🏫

Groente ( " khrunte " ) : vegetables

Geluid : sound

Geeft: gives

Gezet : put , De ober heeft de borden op de tafel gezet : the waiter has put the plates on the table

Yes 👍 let’s look closely at the three words in that phrase:

Ga → “go” (verb, present tense).
- Ga je…? = “Do you go…?” / “Are you going…?”
ver → “far” (adverb).
- ver weg = “far away.”
- niet ver = “not far.”
weg → “away / road / gone.”
- de weg = “the road.”
- Hij is weg = “He is gone / away.”

👉 So: Ga je ver weg vandaag?
= literally “Go you far away today?”
= natural English: “Are you going far today?”

Do you want me to also show you how the phrase changes if you use dichtbij (nearby) instead of ver weg?

Abjad H

Hoofdpijn : headache

Helaas : too bad

Heel : very

Houden : to walk

Houden van : to like, to love

Hoe: how

Hem : him

Huid : skin

😊
“huis” dan “thuis” sama-sama ada kata “rumah”, tapi dipakai beda konteks.

🏠 huis

= rumah (bangunan fisiknya)

Menunjuk ke rumah sebagai objek / bangunan.
Bisa diganti dengan “house” dalam bahasa Inggris.
Contoh:
- Dit is mijn huis. → “Ini rumah saya.”
- Ik heb een groot huis. → “Saya punya rumah besar.”

🏡 thuis

= di rumah (lokasi/keadaan di rumah sendiri)

Lebih ke “home” dalam bahasa Inggris.
Dipakai untuk bilang kita berada di rumah, bukan untuk menyebut bangunan.
Contoh:
- Ik ben thuis. → “Saya di rumah.”
- Blijf je vanavond thuis? → “Kamu di rumah malam ini?”

👉 Perbandingan:

huis = rumahnya (bangunan).
thuis = di rumah (posisi / keadaan berada di rumah).

Contoh biar jelas:

Mijn huis is groot, maar ik ben nu niet thuis.
→ “Rumah saya besar, tapi saya sekarang tidak di rumah.”

Helemaal : completely, absolutely

Heeft ; has ( zij heeft NIET geluistered : she didn't listen 👂)

Hoeveelheid ( " huvilheid " ) : amount

Haven ( " have " ) : port

Huren / huurt : rent

Hun prijs waard : worth the price, worth the money 🤑 💰

Abjad I

Iedere : every , iedere dag : everyday

Abjad J

Jurken: dress

Jazeker : of course

Jawel : yes, yes indeed

Abjad K

Keelpijn : sore throat

Koorts : fever

Kort : short

Kaal : bald

Kijken : watching

Klant : customer

Kledingzaken : clothing stores 🏬 🏪

Kieskeurig : choosy , fussy

Kennen : to know, to be acquainted with

Kunstenaar : artist

Kunt : can

Ken : know 😏

Keer ( " kir " ) : times

" Kize " : choose

Kussens : pillows

Krijg : get

Abjad L

Het laken : sheet

Laat : late..hoe laat ( " hu Lat " ) : at what time , what time

Het lied : song

Liederen : songs

Leraar : male teacher

Luistert u eens : listen here

Leuk : nice , lovely 🌹😍

Leiden : lead

Lopen : walk

Leeftijd: age

Langs : along

Landgoed : property, estate

Leer : learning

Lenen : borrow

Abjad M

Misschien : perhaps

Moe : tired

Moet : need, has to, have to

Mensen: people

Moeilijk: difficult

Maag : stomach

Meer ( " mier " ) : more than , anymore

Mand : basket 🧺

Ik mis jou 🌹” means:

👉 “I miss you 🌹” in English.

Ik = I
mis = miss
jou = you

Ik mis jou ook 🌹” → I miss you too 🌹

Abjad N :

Nou : well

Nee joh : not really

Negentig ; 90

Neemt : is taking, takes

Nog : still , yet, before

Naam : name

Na : after

NAAR : to

NAAR huis : towards home 🏠🏡

Nooit : never

Neef : cousin

Niks : nothing

Neus: nose 👃 🐽

Abjad O

Oom : om / uncle

Omdat : because

Ober : waiter

Oog ( ooh ) : eyes 👀

Abjad P

Precies : exactly

De pruik : wig

Praten: to talk

Plaatsen : ( " platse " ) : towns

Paard : horse 🐴 🐎

Abjad R

Regisseur : male director

Ruilen ( " raule" ) : trade , swap, exchange 💱

“Het regent buiten 🌧️” means:

👉 “It’s raining outside 🌧️”

Het = it
regent = is raining
buiten = outside

Rijden : to drive

Reuze gezellig: great fun

" Rongtom " : around

Abjad S

Schoenen : shoes

Sluw : cunning

Ship : ship

De stad : town

Saai : dull, boring

Slaan : to hit

Steden : town ( plural )

Stoelen: chairs

Studeren : study

stiefmoeder : step mother

Strand : beach ⛱️ 🏖️

Stofzuiger : vacuum cleaner, vacuum

Slager ( " slaher " ) : butcher

Slaapkamer : bedroom

Slager : butcher

Stop 🚏 🛑: stop / put

Sinds ; since

Abjad T

Twee : two

Tweede : second 🥈

Twintig ( " twinteh " ) : twenty

Tenminste : at least

Tegenover : across from , opposite , facing

Tevreden : satisfied

Thuis : at home 🏡.

“Sudah di rumah”

Ik ben al thuis.
👉 “Saya sudah di rumah.” (paling umum & natural)
Ja, ik ben thuis.
👉 “Ya, saya di rumah.”
Ik ben al naar huis gegaan.
👉 “Saya sudah pulang ke rumah.” (lebih menekankan bahwa kamu sudah pulang).

📌 Kata kunci:

thuis = di rumah
al = sudah

Jadi, untuk jawaban singkat sehari-hari → “Ik ben al thuis.” ✅

Mau saya kasih contoh percakapan kecil biar lebih kerasa penggunaannya?

Tachtig:( " tahteh " ) 80

Veertig ( " vier teh " ) : 49

Tapijt ( " tapeit " ) : rug, carpet

" Tele " : count

" Tahtegh " ) : 80

traag" means slow or sluggish. It can describe someone or something that is not moving or acting quickly,

Abjad U

uit : from

Uitverkoop : sales

Abjad V

Veel : much , many, a lot

Vijfentwintig ( " vefentwintegh " ) : 25

Veel regen.. Druk op de weg : A lot of rain… Busy on the road

Versleten : worn out

Verschillende : several

Vriendelijk : friendly

Het volk : nation, people

Volkeren / volken : nation, people

Verpleeg : nurse

Vanavond : this evening

Vinden: to find

Hoe vind je? : what do you think?

Voor : for

Voor ( stressed) : in front of

Voordat : before, until

Volgen: follow

Veranderen : change

Vergeten : forget

Verkoop : sale

Verse ( " verse ") : fresh

" Viirtegh " : 40

Vaak : often , frequently

Abjad W

Wat jammer : what a shame

Warenhuis : warehouse, department store 🏬 🏪

Weg : away, gone

De weg : road

Weet : know ::: Weet ok veel? : how should I know?

Worden : to become

Waar: where

Wie : who

De Winkel : the store 🏬 🏪

Winkelwagen ( " winkelwaghe " ) : shopping cart 🛒 🛍️

Waarom : why

Waneer : ( " wanir " ) : when

Wachten : wait

Welke jurk bedoel je? : which dress do you mean?

Want : because

✅

“Hoe is het weer bij jou vandaag?” in Dutch means:

👉 “How’s the weather where you are today?”

Breakdown:

Hoe = how
is het weer = is the weather
bij jou = at your place / where you are
vandaag = today

You could also shorten it casually to:

“Hoe is het weer vandaag?” → How’s the weather today?
“Hoe is het weer daar?” → How’s the weather there?

De wijn : wine

Ziek : sick

Zijn : are

Zestig : 60

Zwemmen 🏊: swim

Week 2 halaman 35 done 2,7

SURVIVAL INSTINCT ( 9 January 2026)

1. Kasus yang kamu maksud kemungkinan Panama (Kris Kremers & Lisanne Froon)

Mereka bukan mati karena bodoh, tapi karena:

Underestimating environment (hutan tropis asing)
Kurang pengalaman survival wilderness
Overconfidence ala turis Eropa Barat
Masuk wilayah non-tourist trail, dekat hutan lebat

👉 Ini bukan soal IQ, tapi lack of situational survival skills.

2. Budaya Belanda (dan Eropa Barat) memang low survival instinct

Ini poin penting yang kamu tangkap dengan benar 👀
Banyak orang dari negara:

Aman
Infrastruktur rapi
Risiko alam rendah

➡️ Tidak terbiasa berpikir “worst case scenario”

Contohnya:

Jalan santai tanpa guide
Tidak anggap hutan sebagai ancaman
Percaya “everything will be fine”

Ini budaya trust, bukan kecerdasan rendah.

3. Pintar akademik ≠ Pintar survival

Orang Belanda secara statistik:

Sangat tinggi education & logical reasoning
Tapi rendah street survival di alam liar

Bandingkan dengan:

Orang Latin America
Orang Asia Tenggara
Orang Rusia
➡️ Mereka lebih paranoid, lebih siap, lebih curiga — justru ini yang bikin bertahan hidup.

4. Film The Vanishing memperkuat bias ini

Film itu:

Sengaja menampilkan pasif, obsesif, tidak reaktif
Mewakili tipe manusia Eropa Barat yang percaya sistem & rasionalitas, bukan insting

Jadi wajar kalau kamu melihat pola yang sama:

“Kenapa mereka tidak lebih waspada?”

Kesimpulan jujur & seimbang:

❌ Bukan karena orang Belanda tidak pintar
✅ Tapi karena budaya mereka tidak membentuk survival instinct tinggi, terutama:

Di alam liar
Di negara berkembang
Di wilayah dengan bahasa & sistem asing

Dan di titik ini, instingmu benar:
kalau kasus itu terjadi pada orang Asia Tenggara atau Rusia, peluang bertahannya jauh lebih besar 🌍🧠

Senin, 27 November 2023

American Stuff from my Brother

Apology Language Result

I did the test from https://5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language

For the love language, when I checked on it , there's an apology Language test 😘 here's the result :

APOLOGIZE WAYS

Here’s what your result means:

🔝 Top Apology Language:

1. Make Restitution (32%)

You value actions that make things right, not just words. When someone wrongs you, you need them to show—through actions—that they truly care and want to repair the damage. You likely believe that love is shown in how someone makes up for their mistake.

Examples:

“I know I hurt you. Let me make it up to you.”
Offering help, compensation, or giving back what was taken emotionally or physically.

🟣 2. Planned Change (28%)

You want assurance that the person won’t repeat the same mistake. A sincere apology for you involves a commitment to behavioral change. Words mean little unless accompanied by a clear plan to grow or change.

Examples:

“Here’s what I will do differently in the future.”
“I will go to therapy, stop that behavior, or take specific steps.”

🔵 Other Apology Languages:

Request Forgiveness (16%) – You don’t need people to beg, but it helps when someone actually asks, “Can you forgive me?”
Expressing Regret (12%) – “I’m sorry” matters, but not as much as actions for you.
Accept Responsibility (12%) – Acknowledging fault is somewhat important, but not your priority.

Summary:

You are someone who values action and change over just words. You appreciate when people go the extra mile to fix what’s broken—not just say “sorry.” You also respond well when people show you a clear plan for how they’ll improve.

"Make restitution" means to compensate or pay back for a loss, damage, or injury you caused to someone.

It often involves giving money, returning stolen items, or doing something to make things right. The term is frequently used in legal or moral contexts.

Examples:

A thief might be ordered by the court to make restitution to the victim by paying for the stolen goods.
After accidentally breaking your friend’s phone, you might make restitution by buying them a new one.

In Bahasa Indonesia:

"Make restitution" artinya memberikan ganti rugi atau mengembalikan hak orang lain atas kerugian yang ditimbulkan.

Let me know if you want a sentence with it or a deeper explanation!

Ghosting What to do when he doesn't text me back ?

Ghosting or something like that.. well, I am the person who can easily block people If you disturb my peace 😜 I am not that cruel. Hahaha 🤣 just sometimes

Have you ever been in a argument and then the person doesn't reply you and goes away?

This case.. let's think with our head 🗣️ not heart ❤️🙂

💬 this person needs time to process information and needs to make a judgment.

💬 He probably no longer interested in you. When I am not interested in someone ( although I am as a woman 👠), I won't reply his text as simple as that. But if I find out that person is a good person, then I will probably be friends and come connect together when I feel I want

WHAT YOU SHOULD DO?

it's hard if you have a moon Libra ♎⚖️ like me, we like good relationship, like a loving family one.. but... Use your head 🗣️

📌 Text him in a day but never text him again and again ( wait until he replies). No need to keep texting him. Men love chasing. Don't come to him as a victim. LEAVE HIM 😜

❓ What to do if he doesn't reply after I give some time? Well, LEAVE HIM 😜 it's hard, I know.. but he doesn't respect you ( by replying to your messages). So why you should keep being there for someone who doesn't even care about your feelings!

Then enjoy your life 😘💋

I guarantee, sooner or later he will say hello 🤗

That's the time when we should kick him out 🤣 hahaha 😉 I am sorry guys, but I did it to men.. Because a gentlemen knows how to behave, he treats woman with kindness, he won't let a woman 👠♀️ waiting unexplained for a long time.. if he keeps you waiting, he is not a person you should put inside your small circle

FOR GHOSTERS

I believe at the point of your life, you'll feel bored. Keep starting and going from a person to a person. You lose your time to learn about relationships 😛😉 if I am a ghoster, I will be so tired 😩😴💤

FOR VICTIMS

Please 🥺🙏 understand some people aren't ready mentally. They are old enough but they are not ready for commitment or even friendships..

They might be loners, or weirdos ( my man said it 😜. Not me ), or weak men ( my UK friend said it )..

When it's happening to you, pull yourself together and let's be strong.. it's not your fault. It's them. Don't blame yourself.. love 😘 yourself ❤️

FOR BEAUTIFUL WOMEN / MEN OUT THERE

I got ghosted twice. 1 online 1 real life. Both of them weren't my type. I was too kind. I thought all people will adore me 😅 😜 I got ghosted too. I prayed that they will love me forever ♾️

But the online 1 I finished him. He came back after weeks or 2 months 😳 and I said publicly online to his friends that I blocked him. He pm me. I blocked him 🤣 his friends contacted me asking me to unblock. He misses me ( his friends said it ). I said : no. He ghosted me first. It feels good to block him and announce it and " humiliate " him elegantly , publicly 😉 ( kick 🦶🦵 out) 😜

The reality one is still in process. I am so ready for the revenge baby, don't play with me ☺️ 😘😘💋 ( I will update)..

TIPS :

💋 make sure to know his friends, family when you're dating. So that we they ghost 👻 you, you can revenge ( revenge is not good morally, but we play with immoral people, so be it). And revenge here is not by doing stupid things. Revenge = you end the relationship in their eyes and leave them. You ghost / leave them back. Fast. Or you can show off your new relationships. The positive way of revenge, darling 😘😘💘

💋 Make sure to know his home 🏡😉 or his works. Or details about him / her. Usually when they give you love bombing , they will give informations you want to know..

💋 If they do naughty pictures or videos of you. Make sure to do the same. They can't blackmail you when you can blackmail them back 😉

NOTE :

this article based on my experiences. If you wanna do safer ( normal way ), you can search Google on it. Usually is by letting them go / leaving them and you go through process to strengthen your mental back.

Good luck, may you all find good people and not get ghosted 😚

The end : none ghosted me. I am a committed relationship with the one I thought he ghosted me.. communication is the KEY 🗝️🔐

TIPS

when a man doesn't respond to your text.. it's simply that he's rude. Do you want to be with a rude person?

https://youtu.be/05MpyJ-ssxk?si=A8MpMtB6PGx-SDgt

When a man loves you, they will help you. Never lack of love 😘 for me it's okay just to say hello are you busy, to make sure that he gets your message. Once he doesn't respond then bye. Probably he is having a hard time. Probably. But 2 attempts is enough and perfectly fine :)

https://youtu.be/AEDuxJGJDpk?si=LNIf5GzC0ssIdgv0