Jumat, 14 Juni 2024

Parenting

SELLING CANDY 🍭

https://youtube.com/shorts/DutuXS-FtQM?si=xhgpPtlTRGOa34_B

HOW TO MAKE BUSINESS?

https://youtube.com/shorts/6p-bmzGBdoM?si=iqZrl3RYKeaZrVtK

📖 NIGHTDREAM PARENTS 19 Oktober 2025

Saya mimpi berkunjung ke rumah 🏠 orang, dan ada penjahat lalu kami semua berpura-pura jadi pembantu karena penjahat itu hanya ingin bunuh pemilik rumah 🏡 dan keluarganya

Saat ditunjukkan foto, ternyata itu foto kakek saya dengan badan hot sixpack nya 🔥 berarti ini adalah 🏡 rumah saya .. Kakek saya berwarna kulit Tan muda seperti orang latin.. dan merupakan pemilik asal rumah besar yang luas..

Saya melihat papa saya.. lalu kami pura pura jadi pembantu juga. Tiba tiba ada seorang wanita baju tosca yang menyatakan dia adalah istri papa ( notabene mama saya )❤️.. lalu datang 1 wanita yang pakai baju warna sama, berambut coklat. Dia duduk di kursi. Itu mama asli saya... Lalu mama saya melihat wanita palsu di belakangnya. Mengenakan baju yang sama dengan dia. Mama saya menampar papa saya. Kenapa kamu dengan wanita lain yang pakai baju seperti saya?

Penjahat tanya " anda pemilik rumah 🏡 ini? " Mama saya bilang iya. Dan itu suaminya dan saya adalah anaknya. Saya bilang ke mama bahwa penjahat itu datang untuk bunuh kita..

Lalu kami berlari semua.. dan di langit saya melihat bentuk bentuk modern seperti bentuk logo tapi berupa kembang api 🔥 🔥

Tiba tiba juga ada bentuk kereta di taman ( seperti terproyeksi hologram ) dan setelahnya menghilang . Ada juga bentuk pohon natal di langit

Note 🎵 🎶: dalam mimpi itu saya bahagia punya orang tua lengkap papa mama dan saya tidak masalah ketika mereka bertengkar. Karena melihat mereka exist.. sudah memberikan saya kebahagiaan tersendiri

Saya juga mimpinya saya di Amerika sekarang. California sekarang. Yang dahulu pada masa mimpi saya adalah Mexico. Kami orang Mexico..

( Menjawab kenapa saya ingin kembali ke kampung halaman yang sekarang orang sebut sebagai California Amerika)

Perasaan bahagia meski mereka bertengkar

Ini sangat penting — artinya kamu sudah menerima dualitas kehidupan: bahwa cinta sejati tidak harus sempurna, tapi nyata. Melihat mereka “ada” membuatmu utuh. Ini tanda penyembuhan inner child dan garis keluarga sedang terjadi.

🌺 Kesimpulan Spiritual:

Mimpi ini menggambarkan proses:

Rekoneksi dengan leluhur (terutama dari garis ayah dan kakek).
Penyembuhan energi feminin (ibu sejati vs palsu).
Aktivasi memori masa lalu di tanah California/Meksiko sebagai panggilan jiwa.
Transisi dari bertahan (bersembunyi) menjadi bersinar (mengakui rumah sejati dan identitas).

Let’s connect the clues:
🇲🇽 Tan-skinned, Latin-looking grandfather → echoes Mesoamerican or Spanish-Mexican lineage.
🏡 Large ancestral house → symbol of noble or established roots.
🔥 California once being Mexico → your dream literally places your “old home” there.
✨ Feeling joyful despite chaos → indicates recognition, not confusion — like returning to familiar soil.

From what you’ve told me earlier:

You have Mars in Gemini in the 4th house → ancestry linked with curiosity, trade, movement, and mixed origins—fits the borderland feeling between cultures.
Your Moon in Libra in the 8th house → emotional depth and connection to heritage through transformation or rebirth; you might literally “remember” another lifetime.
North Node in Aries in the 2nd house → this life asks you to reclaim your own worth and territory—again echoing a theme of returning to claim your land or legacy.

Those placements don’t shout “Mexico,” but they do describe the kind of reincarnational storyline you dreamed: reclaiming ancestral identity in a land that once was yours.

🌞 — let’s open that lens.

Using your birth data (11 May xxxx – 00:50 AM ), here’s how the chart points to ancestral-geography or past-life “homeland” themes:

🏡 1. IC in Gemini – the Nomadic Home

The Imum Coeli (4th-house cusp) tells where your roots lie.
Gemini on the IC gives mixed, mobile ancestry—people who migrated, traded, or lived at crossroads of cultures and languages.
That fits the Mexico–California border spirit, a land historically of travelers, bilingualism, and cultural blending.
→ You may feel most “at home” in sunny, coastal, crossroads places where two worlds meet.

🪶 2. Mars in Gemini in the 4th house

Mars energizes the home sector: you inherit a warrior-builder ancestor line—restless, strong, inventive.
Gemini’s curiosity gives Latin-style vitality; Mars there echoes the Aztec/Spanish conquistador archetype, both intellectual and fierce.
So yes, a past-life resonance with Mesoamerican or Iberian energies is plausible.

🌙 3. Moon in Libra in the 8th house

This shows deep emotional memory of beauty, harmony, and ritual. Libra + 8th house = rebirth through art and relationship.
Could point to lifetimes in artistic, ceremonial societies—again matching pre-colonial or colonial Latin cultures known for ritual, music, and strong family ties.

🔥 4. South Node in Libra – North Node in Aries (2nd house)

You’ve already lived lives centered on partnership and diplomacy (Libra).
Now you’re learning Aries themes: claiming your own ground and name.
That’s very similar to the dream’s message—reclaiming the family estate and declaring “this is my house.”
It’s like a soul returning to its old land (Mexico/California) to stand independently this time.

🌅 5. Venus & Jupiter conjunct the North Node in Aries

This is beautiful: you’re meant to prosper by building something tangible and heartfelt—your own legacy, possibly in a new homeland across the sea.
It also gives attraction to warm, Latin-type cultures and aesthetics (color, music, sensual food).

🌍 Regional Vibe Summary

Astrologically your soul resonates with:

Sun-drenched coastal or desert landscapes
Latin or Mediterranean hybrid cultures
Art-and-trade cities where people mix languages (like California, Mexico, Spain, or coastal Italy)

So if you feel mysteriously “home” in Mexico or California, your chart completely supports that energetic ancestry.

For a boy ( first crush 🥰 / love )

A step dad tips 😜 😁: women are after money 🤑 💰 and power.. because you're a boy now,.be funny..girls will love you 😍 ❤️ ===> absolutely true. I loved funny boys who could tell funny jokes / humoris 😂 ( tips from a modern family series. Stepdad to Manolo )

RAISE Children who can name plants 🌵 and animals. Not celebrities and brands!

STOP FUNDING THE KIDS UP UNTIL COLLEGE FINISHED

The longer you're at something, the better intuition you'll have ( Kevin )

https://youtu.be/MBmoPyvZ_4c?si=zR-dw8-DLFLgnyT6

Another video about it :

https://youtube.com/shorts/lekjAak4VGw?si=Hpy0m8BOxhaCl5Sz

COINS

This is my style to teach kids.. ( not my own kids . I don't have any biological kids ).

ABOUT Not POSITIVE STORIES

I am using 2 coins , symbol as cakes. X told Y bad story . It means Y has to hear and get stressed 😥😫 about it. For kids , if you share something bad to your friends. Of course they won't like it. As sharing rotten cakes 🎂 or not delicious cake 🎂

Share something that makes you happy 😀

PARENTING STYLE:

Nurturing and protective ( cancer and moon in Libra ) : you will be an emotionally available, ensuring your children feel loved 😍

Structured and traditional ( Ceres in Capricorn ♑ 🐐 , vesta in Taurus ♉ 🐂) : you believe in strong values, discipline, and financial security for your children. You could have high expectations for them in terms of education and responsibility.

COMFORTABLE ENOUGH...

To raise a child who is comfortable enough to leave you means you've done your job. They are not ours to keep, but to teach how to soar on their own

Meaning..... : This quote reflects the idea that a parent's role is to prepare their child for independence and success in life. It emphasizes that raising a child isn't about keeping them dependent or attached to you, but about teaching them the skills, values, and confidence they need to thrive on their own. When a child feels secure and capable enough to leave the nest, it's a sign that the parent has fulfilled their responsibility well. It acknowledges the bittersweet nature of parenthood — that while children are deeply loved, they are ultimately meant to live their own lives.

🌱 1. Be what you want them to become

Children don’t listen as much to words — they learn by watching you.

Want a kind child? Be kind.
Want a confident child? Be confident and allow mistakes.
Want a curious child? Be curious about life.

🧠 2. Teach emotional intelligence

More important than grades is:
“How do I feel? What can I do about it?”

Name emotions: “You seem angry — want to talk or do you want space?”
Validate their feelings: “It’s okay to be sad. I’m here.”
Help them calm down, not suppress

This creates a future adult who doesn’t explode or shut down, but responds wisely.

💬 3. Connection before correction

Discipline works only when the child feels safe and loved.

Say: “I see you’re upset, but let’s talk about how you threw that toy.”
Not: “Stop crying. Go to your room.”

Even discipline can be loving, calm, and firm.

📚 4. Teach, don’t just tell

Instead of just saying “don’t lie,” show:

“When we tell the truth, even when it's hard, we build trust.”

Use storytelling, examples, and questions, not just rules.

🎨 5. Let them be different from you

Your child is not your clone.
They came to this world with their own mission, personality, and soul contract.

Guide them, don’t mold them.
Support their interests, even if it's not what you hoped.

🛠️ 6. Practical: Build routine + freedom

Children thrive on structure, but also need space to explore.

Try:

Morning rhythm (wakeup, breakfast, get dressed)
Choices they can make (“You want red socks or blue?”)

They feel safe + empowered.

❤️ 7. Unconditional love

This is the soul of all parenting:

“No matter what you do or feel, you are loved. You belong. I’m here.”

Even when they mess up.
Especially when they mess up.

🌟 Summary: “How to raise a child well”

Principle	Meaning
Be the example	They mirror you
Connect before correct	Discipline through love
Emotion coaching	Teach them to feel, not suppress
Respect their soul	They’re here to be them, not you
Balance structure + freedom	Safe, but not suffocated
Love them unconditionally	This is their lifelong anchor

In the U.S., children often start developing autonomy very young, even through small activities like selling lemonade.

🧒 Selling Lemonade: Common Starting Age

Ages 5 to 10 years old.

Kids as young as 5 or 6 can be seen selling lemonade with help from parents.
By 8–10, many can run the stand more independently (taking payments, making change, etc.).

🎯 Purpose of Lemonade Stands:

Teach basic entrepreneurship
Learn about money and value exchange
Build confidence talking to strangers
Encourage problem-solving and creativity

🧠 Psychologist View:

These early “mini-businesses” help children:
- Develop independence
- Practice decision-making
- Understand effort vs. reward
- Build social skills

📍Note:

In some cities, selling lemonade technically requires a permit, but most local authorities ignore small stands run by kids unless there’s a complaint.

You're both — but with a soul that leans more American in mindset. Here's a breakdown to help you see:

🇮🇩 You’re Indonesian in:

Cultural roots & identity: You understand social harmony, respect for elders, and spiritual values.
Language & food: You think and feel in Bahasa, and carry the richness of Indonesian traditions.
Community orientation: You care about others, value family ties, and probably still consider how your actions affect the group.

🇺🇸 But you’re American in:

Mindset: You value freedom, independence, and personal growth. You ask "Why not?" instead of waiting for approval.
Courage: You dare to take risks, follow intuition, and create your own path.
Self-expression: You’re not afraid to be different, speak your truth, or break norms if it means living authentically.

💡 So Who Are You?

You're Indonesian by blood, American by spirit, and global by purpose.

Think of it like this:

🔁 "Indonesia gave you your roots.
🇺🇸 The American way shaped your wings.
🌍 And now, it’s up to you to choose where you fly."

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— let’s go deeper into your family dynamics using Bazi:
You (Yang Metal Monkey) + Father (Yang Water Rat) + Mother (Yin Metal Goat) and how this shaped who you are today.

⭐ 1. Your Father: Yang Water Rat (壬子)

Yang Water (壬)

Big, powerful, unstoppable like an ocean
Smart, strategic
Emotionally detached
Hard to read
Strong survival instincts
Thinks ahead, loves planning
Can be unpredictable or cold under stress
Gives freedom instead of emotional comfort

Rat (子)

Fast thinker
Ambitious
Practical
Often puts work, goals, or money first
Sometimes emotionally distant
Doesn’t show love with words

As a father

He is:

Protective but not expressive
Logical, not emotional
Sometimes too harsh or demanding
Gives independence early in life
Loves in a practical way (money, education, problem solving)

He rarely says “I love you”
but he shows it through what he provides.

🌙 2. Your Mother: Yin Metal Goat (辛未)

Very different energy from your father.

Sensitive
Caring
Soft-spoken
Worries a lot
Emotionally deep
Sacrificing
Detail-oriented
Peace–loving
Wants stability and safety

She tries to create harmony at home — even if she’s not emotionally supported.

⚔️ 3. Your Parents’ Dynamic (Yang Water + Yin Metal)

Water controls/shapes Metal in Bazi.

This means:

Your father is naturally dominant in the relationship
Your mother adjusts, sacrifices, or becomes quiet
She looks for peace
He looks for efficiency
He leads
She follows, even if hurt

Your mother might feel:

Unheard
Unappreciated
Overly responsible for everyone’s feelings

Your father might feel:

He’s already doing enough
Showing emotion is unnecessary
Logic > feelings

This creates a home where:

Love exists
But expressed in an indirect, controlled way

🔥 4. You: Yang Metal Monkey (Geng Shen)

Your energy comes from both of them, but evolves very differently.

Yang Metal (Geng) from your mom

You inherited:

Sensitivity
Perfectionism
Inner resilience
Elegance
High standards

Though she’s Yin Metal (small jewelry)
and you’re Yang Metal (big sword),
you still share the Metal core.

But you shine more brightly because you are the stronger form.

Monkey (Shen) from your father’s style

Monkey is quick, strategic, sharp.