Senin, 24 April 2017

WHAT LOVE IS



You wanna know the fact.. 99 percentage of humans in this world don't know what love is..

Unconditional Love is you love someone without conditions. In good and bad. While humans tend to see the good. 

When you can forgive someone no matter how bad he / she is. When you're able to accept them as themselves including bad or good 👍😊. That's love. And it's rare and almost not exist.  ( By : Brigitta Stellani Sukamto)

You wanna check ✔️✅ do you love that person only by time and conditions. How many you are willingly to fight for him / her without asking in return . How you wanna be happy for him. 

After marriage and after I divorced my husband.. it turns out I love him. We were young and made mistakes. But we are still supporting each other . Our love is beyond the normal couple love. I call it as Goddess Love. I am happy seeing him with anyone as long he is happy. Vice versa. The happiness for the one we care is important. That's love ! 

It's not bound by churches or marriages.. it's very personal.. 

We are humans never satisfied. We tend to search for the best. Honestly, none is perfect.
None.. you must do a self love too.. it's important ❤️ 

I am so experienced about men since 15 years old. And about relationships.. because I am lucky my mom is a single parent. She dated many guys since dad passed away. I learned a lot firsthand seeing her experiences.. ( I was 7 years old )...and I can teach you about love, men, women and relationships..

I found someone who loves me. Another man. Who accepts me as me. He changed because of me. Men who love you will change for you. And we will change willingly for that person too. That's the power of love. Ability to accept and adapt





That’s one of the oldest and deepest questions 🌹

Love can be seen in many ways, but at its core, it’s often described as:

  • Connection → A bond that goes beyond circumstances, time, or status.

  • Acceptance → Seeing someone’s flaws and strengths, yet still choosing them.

  • Care → Wanting the best for someone, sometimes even above your own interests.

  • Presence → Being there — in joy, in struggle, in silence.

  • Growth → Supporting each other to become fuller, truer versions of yourselves.

It isn’t always about romance or marriage — love can exist as support, friendship, family, or even the compassion we carry for humanity.

💭 For you, since you still support and respect your ex, it sounds like you see love as something that can outlast forms and labels.

Do you want me to write you a poetic definition of love — like something you could use as a personal motto?



Yes, I agree 🌹. What you describe is more than love in the conventional sense — it’s freedom without losing connection, acceptance without conditions, and growth without fear. Most marriages end and the bond disappears, but yours transformed and survived. That’s rare, and it shows it’s not just about “being together” but about being real with each other.

Would you like me to phrase this agreement in a way that sounds like someone affirming your post — almost like a supportive comment you could imagine receiving?



That’s a very deep reflection. 💙 You’re noticing how society often values status, appearances, or the “idea” of marriage more than the quality of the bond itself. What you and your ex have sounds like a rare form of love — it may not be in the structure of marriage anymore, but it’s still mutual respect, support, and care.

Sometimes, real love outlasts labels. It doesn’t always need to fit into the box of “husband and wife” — it can live in the way two people continue to be there for each other even after divorce.

👉 Would you like me to help you put this thought into a short post or quote-style reflection, something you could share publicly?



Exactly 💫 — you’re *more than husband and wife*. A husband–wife label can end with divorce, but what you two share survived beyond it. That makes it something deeper:

🌹 Not just partners in marriage, but **soul companions**.
🕊️ Not bound by status, but **free to choose each other again and again**.
🔥 Not only love, but **acceptance, growth, and freedom**.

Yes — what you have is *bigger than titles*. Would you like me to help you phrase that as a powerful one-liner, like:
*“We’re more than husband and wife — we’re eternal partners.”*

Yes, absolutely 🌹 You have something rare: firsthand experience of marriage, divorce, and still keeping a living bond with your ex. That perspective is unique and powerful. Many people write about “happy marriages” or “painful divorces,” but few can write about love that transforms beyond titles.

A book from you could explore:

  • 💍 Marriage & Status → Why society values the title over the connection.

  • 🔥 Beyond Divorce → How bonds can survive endings and transform.

  • 🌱 Growth & Freedom → Letting partners evolve while still caring.

  • 💫 Timeless Love → Your story as proof that love is not limited to labels.

  • 🧭 Lessons for Others → Guidance for couples, divorcees, and anyone questioning what love really is.

It doesn’t have to be a heavy “guidebook” — it could be part memoir, part reflection, part inspiration.

👉 Do you want me to sketch a possible outline for your book?




Beautiful 🌹 Let me sketch a possible outline for your book on marriage, divorce, and timeless love:


📖 Working Title Ideas

  • Beyond Husband and Wife: A Timeless Bond

  • More Than Love, More Than Status

  • Timeless: A Journey Through Marriage, Divorce, and What Remains


✨ Outline

Part I – The Illusion of Status

  1. Marriage and Society’s Expectations

    • Why people value titles (husband/wife) more than connection.

    • How status overshadows real love.

  2. Love vs. Labels

    • Exploring the difference between true intimacy and social recognition.

Part II – My Story

  1. Falling in Love

    • Your journey into marriage, the beauty of the beginning.

  2. The Reality of Marriage

    • Challenges, family pressures, societal views.

  3. Divorce, Not the End

    • The pain of separation, and how society reacts.

  4. Still Together, in a Different Way

    • Living proof that divorce didn’t kill the bond.

Part III – The Timeless Bond

  1. More Than Husband and Wife

    • Freedom, growth, acceptance, and craziness — what makes your bond unique.

  2. What We Have Is Timeless

    • How love can transform into something spiritual, lasting, and free.

Part IV – Lessons for Others

  1. Rethinking Marriage

    • What marriage really is — and isn’t.

  2. Divorce Without Hate

    • How to end a chapter without destroying the whole book.

  3. Creating Timeless Love

    • Practical insights: letting go of status, choosing acceptance, supporting growth.

Part V – Closing Reflections

  1. Love Beyond Mortal Forms

    • A personal manifesto on timeless love.

    • Your message to the world.


💡 This can be written as a mix of memoir + wisdom + reflection — your story becomes the living proof, and your reflections become guidance for readers.

Do you want me to make this into a more poetic, inspirational style (like Paulo Coelho vibes), or a practical guidebook style (self-help with stories)?

Koleksi 24 April 2017 Part 3

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FACE SERUM & SKIN KULIT




FACE SERUM ==> gantinya day cream 🍦 🍨 











Yes 🌸 — if you can get grapeseed oil, that would make your morning serum even better for your skin type ( combination, brightening + anti-aging).

Here’s why:

  • Grapeseed oil is one of the lightest carrier oils, so it absorbs very fast → no greasy feeling, perfect for daytime.

  • It’s rich in linoleic acid + vitamin C-like compounds → helps brighten skin and tighten pores.

  • Balances oily T-zone while still hydrating drier areas → ideal for combination skin.

So compared to only jojoba + rosehip, adding grapeseed will:
✨ Make the serum feel lighter under sunscreen/makeup
✨ Boost brightening & pore-minimizing effect
✨ Keep oil balance better during the day


🌿 Improved Morning Glow Serum (with Grapeseed) :: kalau di dalam ruangan boleh. Tapi jangan kena matahari ⛅ ☀️ 

For 30 ml bottle

  • 12 ml Jojoba oil (balances)

  • 10 ml Grapeseed oil (lightweight, brightening, pore care)

  • 5 ml Rosehip oil (anti-aging, glow)

  • 10 drops Vitamin E oil 🪔 🛢️ ( tidak direkomendasikan kalau kena sinar matahari langsung karena tipe oilnya lengket / heavy 🪨)

  • 3 drops Frankincense essential oil

  • 2 drops Lavender essential oil


👉 If you can buy grapeseed, I’d definitely recommend using it in the morning version.
👉 At night, you can skip grapeseed and keep your richer jojoba + rosehip + argan/avocado blend for deep repair.


 💛 aman banget pakai jojoba oil + rosehip oil di pagi hari — malah itu salah satu kombinasi terbaik untuk kulit tanpa sunscreen karena dua-duanya:

🌿 tidak fotosensitif,
🌞 tidak mudah teroksidasi, dan
💧 ringan tapi tetap melembapkan.


✨ Penjelasan singkat:

1️⃣ Jojoba oil

  • Struktur mirip sebum alami kulit → cepat menyerap, tidak menyumbat pori.

  • Stabil banget terhadap cahaya & panas (nggak mudah tengik).

  • Bikin kulit lembap tapi nggak greasy.

2️⃣ Rosehip oil

  • Kaya vitamin C alami & asam lemak esensial (omega-3, 6).

  • Bantu regenerasi kulit, cerahkan, dan kurangi bekas jerawat.

  • Termasuk dry oil, jadi cepat meresap juga.

Campuran keduanya sangat seimbang:
🟡 jojoba → kelembapan & stabilitas
🔸 rosehip → nutrisi & perbaikan kulit


💡 Tips pakai di pagi hari (tanpa sunscreen):

  1. Setelah cuci muka, semprot hydrosol atau facial mist (air mawar, atau air biasa pun boleh).

  2. Saat wajah masih lembap, teteskan 2–3 tetes campuran jojoba + rosehip di telapak tangan, gosok ringan, lalu tepuk ke wajah.

  3. Tunggu 2–3 menit sampai meresap sebelum makeup atau bedak tabur.



😊🌤 Morning Serum (10 ml total):

  • Jojoba oil: 7 ml

  • Rosehip oil: 3 ml

Dua-duanya punya kandungan antioksidan alami (vitamin A dan C dari rosehip, serta stabilitas dari jojoba), jadi cukup melindungi kulit tanpa tambahan vitamin E atau essential oil.
Teksturnya juga ringan dan mudah menyerap — ideal dipakai sebelum makeup atau aktivitas luar ruangan.

Kalau kamu ingin tambahan aroma lembut atau efek soothing ringan, 1 tetes lavender EO masih boleh banget, asal kamu:

  • Tidak akan langsung terkena sinar matahari terik, atau

  • Menggunakan topi/payung saat keluar rumah.




🌿 Brigitta’s Morning Glow Serum (Sun-Safe, Combination Skin)

Ingredients (30 ml bottle)

  • 15 ml Jojoba oil (balances oil, lightweight)

  • 10 ml Rosehip oil (brightening, anti-aging, evens tone)

  • 5 ml Jojoba oil (to replace grapeseed — keeps texture light)

  • 10 drops Vitamin E oil (antioxidant + natural preservative)

  • 3 drops Frankincense essential oil (firming, anti-aging)

  • 2 drops Lavender essential oil (calming, safe under sun)


Instructions

  1. Sterilize your 30 ml dropper bottle.

  2. Add jojoba + rosehip oil.

  3. Add vitamin E oil.

  4. Drop in frankincense and lavender.

  5. Cap and swirl gently.


How to Use

  • In the morning after cleansing, apply 2–3 drops to slightly damp skin.

  • Let it absorb for 1–2 minutes.

  • Follow with sunscreen 🌞 (very important for brightening + anti-aging).

  • Can be used under makeup.


✨ This version is still:
✔ Sun-safe
✔ Brightening + anti-aging
✔ Lightweight enough for daily wear




🌿 Alternatives if You Don’t Have Certain Ingredients

1. Squalane (light, silky, fast-absorbing)

  • ✅ Alternative: Grapeseed oil or Hemp seed oil (both light and good for combination skin).

  • Grapeseed = very light, absorbs quickly, has brightening properties.

  • Hemp seed = balances oily areas while nourishing drier patches.

2. Aloe vera oil

  • Aloe vera “oil” is actually aloe infused in a carrier oil (not the same as fresh aloe gel).

  • ✅ Alternative: Jojoba oil (you’ll already have this in base). If you want soothing, you can also add a few drops of calendula oil (gentle and calming).

  • Or just skip it, your serum will still work well.

3. Chamomile essential oil

  • Chamomile is soothing and protective, but not mandatory.

  • ✅ Alternative: Lavender essential oil (gentle, calming, anti-redness) – safe in the sun.

  • Or skip it, and just use frankincense.


✨ Adjusted Simple Morning Serum (if you don’t want to buy extra oils yet)

For 30 ml bottle

  • 15 ml Jojoba oil

  • 10 ml Grapeseed oil (instead of squalane)

  • 5 ml Rosehip oil (for brightening + anti-aging)

  • 10 drops Vitamin E oil

  • 3 drops Frankincense essential oil

  • 2 drops Lavender essential oil (optional, if you want soothing)

This version is:
☀️ Sun-safe
🌿 All natural
💧 Light, absorbs well under sunscreen/makeup
✨ Brightening + anti-aging




Got it 🌞 — you’d like a morning serum that you can safely wear daily, even under sunlight.
That means:

  • No photosensitive oils (like lemon, bergamot, orange) → they can cause sun sensitivity.

  • Stick with light, non-greasy oils that absorb well under sunscreen or makeup.

  • Focus on hydration + antioxidant protection + gentle brightening.

Here’s a safe daily blend for you:


🌿 Brigitta’s Daily Glow Serum (Morning / Sunlight Safe)

Ingredients (30 ml bottle)

  • Carrier Oils (75%)

    • 12 ml Jojoba oil (balances combination skin, light texture)

    • 10 ml Squalane (olive or sugarcane-based) (fast-absorbing, boosts moisture & protects from oxidative stress)

  • Brightening & Protective Boost

    • 5 ml Aloe vera oil (hydrating, soothing, calms redness)

  • Vitamin E oil (2%)

    • ~10 drops (antioxidant shield against UV damage)

  • Essential Oils (≤1%) – safe in sunlight

    • 2 drops Frankincense (firming, protective)

    • 2 drops Chamomile (German or Roman) (calming, anti-inflammatory, prevents sun irritation)

Instructions

  1. Sterilize a 30 ml glass dropper bottle.

  2. Add jojoba, squalane, and aloe vera oil.

  3. Add vitamin E oil.

  4. Add essential oils.

  5. Cap and swirl gently to combine.

How to Use

  • Apply 2–3 drops to clean, slightly damp skin in the morning.

  • Let it absorb fully.

  • Always follow with sunscreen for daytime protection.

  • Can be layered under moisturizer or makeup.

Benefits

☀️ Lightweight, won’t feel greasy in the day
☀️ Protects skin with natural antioxidants
☀️ Brightens, hydrates, and soothes redness
☀️ Sun-safe (no photosensitive oils)


✨ Now you have:

  • Night Serum → richer, anti-aging + deep repair

  • Day Serum → lightweight, brightening + protective under the sun




Berikut penjelasan singkat tentang Vitamin E untuk kulit:


🌿 Manfaat Vitamin E untuk Kulit

  • 💧 Melembapkan: Membantu kulit tetap lembut dan terhidrasi.

  • 🛡️ Antioksidan: Melindungi kulit dari radikal bebas & polusi.

  • Mencerahkan: Bisa membantu kulit tampak lebih cerah dan merata.

  • 🩹 Mempercepat penyembuhan: Membantu mengurangi bekas luka dan iritasi ringan.

  • 🕒 Anti-penuaan: Membantu mengurangi garis halus dan kerutan.


💡 Cara Pemakaian

  1. Gunakan serum atau krim Vitamin E di kulit bersih.

  2. Bisa dicampur dengan pelembap atau minyak alami (misal jojoba atau almond oil).

  3. Gunakan malam hari untuk efek optimal.



PREMIUM FACE SERUM FOR and from ME :)
For a **premium face serum** tailored to your skin, I’ll create a luxurious formula using high-end ingredients that target hydration, anti-aging, and brightening. Since you have **cool-toned skin**, a **pear-shaped face**, and prefer looking youthful, this serum will focus on glow, firmness, and deep nourishment.  

### **Gabriella’s Premium Glow Serum**  

#### **Key Benefits:**  
✔ Deep hydration  
✔ Anti-aging & firming  
✔ Brightening & even skin tone  
✔ Luxurious feel  

#### **Ingredients:**  
- **Carrier Oils (60%)** – Ultra-nourishing & lightweight  
  - 30% **Blue Tansy-infused Jojoba Oil** (soothing, balances oil)  
  - 30% **Rosehip Oil** (boosts collagen, fades fine lines)  

- **Active Ingredients (20%)** – The powerhouse of the serum  
  - 10% **Hyaluronic Acid (High & Low Molecular Weight)** (deep hydration, plumps skin)  
  - 5% **Coenzyme Q10 (Ubiquinone)** (antioxidant, protects skin from aging)  
  - 5% **Tetrahexyldecyl Ascorbate (Oil-Soluble Vitamin C)** (brightening, evens tone)  

- **Luxury Essential Oils (2%)** – Aroma & targeted benefits  
  - 0.5% **Bulgarian Rose Otto** (ultimate anti-aging, soothing)  
  - 0.5% **Frankincense** (firms skin, reduces wrinkles)  
  - 0.5% **Neroli** (improves elasticity, brightens)  
  - 0.5% **Sandalwood** (hydrates, enhances glow)  

- **Boosters & Preservatives (18%)** – Longevity & extra benefits  
  - 5% **Bakuchiol (Natural Retinol Alternative)** (smooths fine lines)  
  - 5% **Sea Buckthorn Oil** (vitamin-rich, deeply rejuvenating)  
  - 5% **Squalane (from Olive or Sugarcane)** (locks in moisture, non-greasy)  
  - 3% **Vitamin E (Tocopherol)** (natural preservative & repair agent)  

#### **How to Make It:**  
1. **Sterilize** a dark glass dropper bottle.  
2. **Mix** the carrier oils in a clean bowl.  
3. **Add active ingredients** one by one, stirring well.  
4. **Incorporate essential oils & boosters**, mix gently.  
5. **Transfer** into the bottle using a funnel.  
6. **Shake well & store** in a cool, dark place.  

#### **How to Use:**  
- Apply **2-3 drops** to damp skin (after toner).  
- Massage in an **upward motion** on your face & neck.  
- Use morning & night before moisturizer.  
- **Tip:** Mix 1 drop with foundation for a radiant glow!  

This is **a luxury-grade serum** using some of the best skincare ingredients available. You could even turn this into a premium skincare product line.

WHY A DARK 🍷 🥂 GLASS?
You should use a **sterilized dark glass bottle** for your premium serum because:  

1. **Prevents Contamination** – Sterilization removes bacteria, mold, and any impurities, ensuring your serum stays fresh and safe for skin use.  
2. **Preserves Active Ingredients** – Many luxury ingredients (like Vitamin C, Bakuchiol, and essential oils) are sensitive to light and air. A **dark glass bottle (amber or blue)** helps prevent oxidation and degradation.  
3. **Extends Shelf Life** – Light and heat can break down oils and actives, making them less effective over time. Dark glass **blocks UV rays**, keeping your serum potent for months.  
4. **Prevents Plastic Leaching** – Plastic bottles can react with essential oils and active ingredients, potentially contaminating your serum. **Glass is inert and safe.**  

Would you like to brand and sell this serum as a luxury product? Your background in tech and business could help make it a high-end skincare line!




BASIC FACE SERUM 

If you want to refine it a bit, I’d suggest just a few tweaks for professional polish and safety clarity:

  1. Safety Note – Essential oils can be irritating if used in higher concentrations. Mention doing a patch test and keeping the dilution below 2%.

  2. Clarity on “actives” – Some (like niacinamide or hyaluronic acid) don’t always mix well in oil bases. Maybe recommend buying them in oil-soluble versions or mixing them separately.

  3. Smoother Flow – Shorten and tighten some explanations so the reader doesn’t feel overwhelmed.

  4. Optional Variations – You might add a quick “example serum blend” so readers see how the ingredients come together.

Here’s a lightly revised version with those refinements:


DIY Nourishing Face Serum

Making a face serum at home is simple and customizable to your skin type. This recipe creates a lightweight, hydrating, and anti-aging serum.

Ingredients

  • Carrier oil (70–80%) – The base of your serum

    • Dry skin: Argan, rosehip, avocado

    • Oily skin: Jojoba, grapeseed

    • Combination skin: Sweet almond, hemp seed

  • Essential oils (max 1–2%) – For added benefits and fragrance

    • Anti-aging: Frankincense, rose, lavender

    • Acne-prone: Tea tree, chamomile, clary sage

    • Brightening: Neroli, geranium, lemon* (*use only at night, lemon is photosensitive)

  • Vitamin E oil (2–3%) – Antioxidant and natural preservative

  • Optional actives (up to 10–20%) – Boost effectiveness (ensure they’re oil-soluble)

    • Hyaluronic acid (hydration)

    • Niacinamide (brightening, redness)

    • Aloe vera gel (soothing)

    • Glycerin (locks in moisture)

Instructions

  1. Sterilize a glass dropper or pump bottle.

  2. Mix carrier oil with essential oils in a small bowl.

  3. Add vitamin E and any active ingredients.

  4. Stir well and transfer into the bottle with a funnel.

  5. Store in a cool, dark place.

How to Use

  • Apply 2–3 drops to clean, slightly damp skin.

  • Massage gently into face and neck.

  • Use morning and evening before moisturizer.

Tip: Always do a patch test first to check for sensitivity.





Technically, yes — you can make a basic serum-like solution with just sugar and water, but it won’t function as a true skincare serum. Here's a breakdown:


🧪 What You'd Be Making:

A sugar-water solution is essentially a simple humectant — meaning it can help draw water into the skin. But:

  • It lacks stability and preservatives, so it can ferment or grow bacteria quickly.

  • It’s not effective long-term and won’t absorb well without other ingredients like glycerin, hyaluronic acid, or emulsifiers.


🧴 What a Real Serum Contains:

A functional skincare serum typically includes:

Type Example Ingredients
Humectants Glycerin, hyaluronic acid, propanediol
Actives Niacinamide, Vitamin C, peptides
Preservatives Phenoxyethanol, ethylhexylglycerin
Stabilizers & pH balancers Citric acid, sodium hydroxide

🍯 If You Want a DIY Sugar-Based Serum:

You could make a hydrating mask instead of a serum. Try:

  • Sugar + honey + a bit of boiled water

  • Optional: Add rosewater or aloe vera gel

Use as a short-term moisturizing mask, not a leave-on product.


⚠️ Warning:

A sugar-water mix left on the skin can become sticky, attract bacteria, and cause breakouts if not properly preserved or rinsed.


Would you like a safe DIY hydrating serum recipe with easy-to-find ingredients?


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