Kamis, 16 Januari 2025

VISA REJECTION

 

Today...for the first time I get rejected.. said 214b... no strong ties to my home country.

Why wanna come to the US? I said because I visited many places. I visited Macau Hongkong Japan and I want to visit America. Later Australia 🦘 🦘..

I am a member of rotary club and I said I want to learn with clubs in the US..he said I know you and rotary.

Travel history : I travelled to Japan and Hongkong and Macau 2016 and 2018.. now is 2025.. I wanted to show it and the officer said he doesn't want to check ✅ ✅ my documents 

I am co founder/ business owner with my ex husband as my partner: I wanted to show the officer my documents , yet he said he doesn't want to check ✔️ ✅ any of my documents 

Do I know Americans? In person no.. but I have many online friends. I mentioned I don't have the US contact because I just want to travel 🧳 and don't wanna bother them..

I live with my ex husband we have a house 🏠 together also I have a house with my family..under my name! But he only typed and said I must re apply 


RED FLAGS:

My number was 141 but they skipped my number and the interviewer was the person who reject almost all people in the room ( except people with 3-5 groups).. I can say 8 = rejected . 3 = accepted..

What shocked me was I am so fluent in English and 3 groups which accepted couldn't speak English well even they didn't understand the questions..

1.. a man with American's wife got rejected 

2.. all Indonesian females in that room => rejected 

3. 3 marketing from 2 different companies ( big ones) are rejected 

+ It's a big business. They rejected me = 3 millions IDR. 10 people= 30 millions IDR. Easy money just by rejecting people.. if a person apply 2-4 times,.they get so much money just from 1 person ( logically). 


I don't know why he rejected me with reason no strong ties while for me no reason.. I have business and a rotary member. A company is in Indonesia. I asked for explanations and he didn't give it.. they asked me to mail them..so I did.. ( just wait for 3 days response)

I need a logical explanation. You're free to reject me..but with clear explanation.. I was a lecturer.. it's the best to teach people rather than treat them like a dumb..

I told my ex husband and he said now the US put DEI people .. now I understand why incompetent person can be an officer.. Because they are officer because of diversity factor not because of their ability to have strong instinct differentiate people.. I feel sorry about america. But maybe it's the God's way. I wanted to visit Los Angeles and now it's still burning..

Maybe God don't want me die there.. that was the reason I got rejected. I am just shocked. People like me who just wanna learn about the Strong city 🏙️ 🌆 and want to come back with good history of travelling and good financial report ( he didn't even check my financial report. He DOESN'T WANT to check ✔️ ✅ any of my DOCUMENTS. This is silly to me. All I know..I must give documents as proves. Nothing is logic here... 

My friends in America said " it makes us mad when you want to enter legally.. they make it so difficult.. while so many illegal immigrants here.. it's sad. " :; it's true hahaha 🤣 because they rejected high quality people like me.. 

My main reason actually is about astrology, I want to check ✅ ✅ my energy there and if that's good, I want to make business and cooperation about business and rotary clubs. 


UNTUK BAHAN PERENUNGAN 

Apakah special nya Amerika sehingga membuat orang ingin kesana dan rela berkali-kali coba visa. Lalu, officer tetaplah manusia. Dia ada suka dan tidak suka ke seseorang sehingga membuat feeling atau adjustment tergantung pada " mood " dia saat itu.. menurut saya yang lulusan engineering, itu tidak pakai logika dan hanya berujung pada " asumsi " yang merugikan pihak yang innocent 😇 seperti case saya..saya mau kesana karena saya punya rute Singapore Malaysia Hongkong Macau Jepang.. berikutnya adalah Amerika lalu Australia 🌏 🦘 tapi karena rute Amerika ditolak. Sepertinya saya akan minta petunjuk alam mimpi untuk pindah rute.. mungkin ke Eropa atau kemana.

Walaupun orang memberikan semangat untuk apply orang, saya tidak masuk logika alasan penolakan visa. Betul kita pakai insting, officer diminta itu. Tapi kalau saya boleh perbaiki sistem. Ini yang akan saya lakukan:

🔫 Perbaiki sistem dalam di Amerika dengan menerapkan visitor overstay tidak boleh apply next visa / tidak boleh perpanjangan dan juga tidak boleh apply green 💚 card ( banyak kasus illegal immigrants disana lalu bisa dapat greencard karena sudah lama disana dan punya property disana)

:::: sistem ini bisa jadi solusi daripada menolak saya misalkan yang jelas kredibel tapi dianggap tidak kredibel dari feeling 🥺 

🔫 Baiknya cek dokumen peng apply visa secara kasar sehingga bisa menanyakan mana yang ga lengkap. Kebiasaan orang sini Lain dengan di Amerika. Saya pun begitu..dokumen saya rasa lebih kuat daripada ucapan. Tapi buat officer kok lebih kuat ucapan ya? Bukti yang disiapkan ditolak terus 

🔫 Buang uang 💸 💰 atau rejeki ke negara lain yang menghargai anda.. Jepang memperlakukan saya sangat baik :) 




INFORMATION:

Based on the letter, your visa was denied under **Section 214(b)** of the U.S. Immigration and Nationality Act (INA), meaning you did not sufficiently demonstrate non-immigrant intent. To strengthen your reapplication, consider the following suggestions:


### 1. **Enhance Proof of Ties to Home Country**:

   - **Employment**: Submit a letter from your employer confirming your position, length of employment, salary, and approved leave for your trip. If you own a business, include business registration documents and financial statements.

   - **Property Ownership**: Provide evidence of any property you own, such as a house or land, to show you have significant ties to your home country.

   - **Family Commitments**: Include documents that show you have immediate family members (parents, siblings) relying on you in Indonesia.


### 2. **Financial Stability**:

   - Submit bank statements, investment portfolios, or other financial documents showing that you are financially stable and can afford the trip without needing to stay longer than allowed.


### 3. **Travel History**:

   - If you have traveled to other countries and returned on time, provide copies of visas and entry/exit stamps as proof that you have adhered to visa requirements in the past.


### 4. **Clear Purpose of Visit**:

   - Include a detailed itinerary of your trip, showing where you will stay, what activities you plan to do, and specific return dates. If you have a friend or family in the U.S., include a letter of invitation from them, but ensure it emphasizes that your visit is temporary.


### 5. **Letter of Intent**:

   - Write a detailed letter explaining why you wish to visit the U.S., your planned duration of stay, and your commitments to return home. Emphasize your ties and responsibilities in Indonesia.


### 6. **Consult with a Visa Expert**:

   - It may be helpful to consult with an immigration lawyer or visa consultant who can guide you on how to address the issues noted in your rejection letter effectively.


### 7. **Reapplication Timing**:

   - While there is no specific waiting period, it’s advisable to reapply only after gathering stronger evidence or when there’s a significant change in your circumstances.


Preparing these documents thoroughly will increase your chances of success in the next application. If you need help drafting any documents or letters, feel free to ask!


🌺 

Being unmarried and without children can sometimes be viewed as a potential risk for overstaying in certain visa categories, as consular officers might perceive fewer strong ties to your home country. However, it's not necessarily an issue if you can demonstrate other compelling ties, such as:


1. **Professional Commitments**: Highlight any significant career responsibilities or business operations you manage in your home country.

2. **Property or Financial Assets**: Show ownership of property, financial investments, or other substantial assets that indicate your intent to return.

3. **Family Ties**: Emphasize close relationships with family members who remain in your home country.

4. **Community Involvement**: Mention any roles or obligations you have in local organizations or communities, such as your Rotary involvement.


Strengthening your application in these areas can help address concerns and improve your chances in a reapplication.


INDONESIA AND VISA 

The statement about "high demand and limited visas" refers to the fact that there are a large number of applicants for U.S. visas from countries like Indonesia, but the U.S. government only issues a certain number of visas each year. As a result, the visa application process becomes highly competitive. Here's a breakdown of why this happens:


1. **High Demand**:

   - **Popularity of U.S. Destinations**: Many people from countries like Indonesia want to visit the U.S. for tourism, business, education, and family reasons. The U.S. remains a popular destination for education (with many Indonesian students seeking to study there) and tourism (for example, visiting family or sightseeing).

   - **Global Demand**: The demand for U.S. visas is high worldwide, and countries like Indonesia contribute a significant number of applicants. This means that the U.S. Embassy in Indonesia receives a large volume of visa applications, especially during peak seasons (like summer or holiday periods).


2. **Limited Visas**:

   - **Quota System**: The U.S. has specific quotas for the number of visas it can issue to applicants each year. This quota varies depending on the type of visa. For example, there are limits on the number of immigrant visas, student visas, and tourist visas available each year.

   - **Resource Constraints**: The U.S. Embassy in Indonesia, like other embassies around the world, has limited resources in terms of personnel and capacity to process the high volume of applications. This means not all applicants can be approved, even if they meet the criteria.


3. **Competitive Nature**:

   - **Visa Processing**: When demand exceeds the available number of visas, applicants are evaluated more strictly. Only those who meet the criteria (like proving strong ties to their home country, financial stability, and a clear purpose for their visit) are more likely to be approved.

   - **Risk of Denial**: In high-demand situations, U.S. consular officers may be more cautious and conservative in issuing visas. If they have doubts about an applicant’s intentions or the risk of overstaying, they may deny the visa to ensure compliance with immigration laws.


4. **Longer Wait Times**:

   - As demand increases and more people apply, processing times for visas can also become longer. This is due to both the volume of applications and the embassy's limited capacity to handle them.


In summary, the combination of high demand and limited visas leads to a competitive visa application process. This is why applicants must present a strong case to increase their chances of approval. If you reapply, ensuring you meet all requirements and submit thorough documentation is essential.

SNOW BLACK

With **snow black** (a cool-toned black), you can create a chic and complementary look by choosing colors that align with your cool skin tone. Here are some suggestions for tops and coats that would work well with snow black:

### **Tops:**
1. **Cool Whites**: Opt for pure white or off-white, which will pair nicely with snow black and highlight your cool undertones.
2. **Soft Pastels**: Light pink, lavender, or mint green would work beautifully, adding a soft, feminine touch while complementing your cool skin tone.
3. **Jewel Tones**: Colors like emerald green, sapphire blue, and amethyst purple will contrast elegantly with snow black and bring out your skin’s undertones.
4. **Silver or Grey**: These cool neutrals work well and maintain a sleek, modern aesthetic.

### **Coats:**
1. **Cool Gray or Charcoal**: A cool-toned gray coat would create a sophisticated, monochromatic look when paired with snow black jeans.
2. **Navy Blue**: This deep, cool color can add depth and elegance, complementing both your skin tone and the black jeans.
3. **Deep Burgundy**: A rich burgundy coat would add a pop of color without overwhelming your overall look.
4. **Icy Blue or Soft Lilac**: For a lighter, more airy contrast, an icy blue or soft lilac coat would work beautifully with snow black, providing a calm, refined appearance.

These options will enhance your cool skin tone and create an overall polished, fashionable outfit.

Rabu, 15 Januari 2025

Senin, 13 Januari 2025

EXPERT IN MEN

 

If I have to check ✔️ ✅ what's my natural gift 🧧 🎁 except teaching.. people call me as master or expert in men..

Should make books or be a coach 😜 😉 I haven't tried it yet. 


It started when I was 9 years old... My mom dated a man when I was 7 years old ( my dad passed away when I was 6 ).. I wasn't agree with what my mom did. Then 9 years old.. I met Mr Hengky. He was expert in females.. he lied to my mom and my mom didn't blame him..he asked me to test my mom's response.

Then later later.. I have knowledge from my mom's boyfriends..

Enhanced when I was 13 years old.. I had to have cash for my necessities.. I learned the art of negotiations.. free stuffs for school.

And age 15, I needed food, transportation.. I found out that boys enjoy my companies. It didn't include sex. Use your brain 🧠 

My grandma told me.. women have bodies and use your body to earn resources are the lowest level.. use the brain 🧠 is the next level.. 

She taught me :

1. Women can use their bodies and find rich guys. Get married..or be a prostitute..but it will fade away by age..but brain 🧠 and character stay forever. Use your brain 🧠

2. Women are driven by emotions and men are by logics. Beautiful 😍 physically+ beautiful mind = you can conquer the world 🌎 🌍 


Then I made formulas 

1. Acceptance: I checked all boys like me when o accepted them as them. When they took me to ' angkringan ' I felt thankful and I said it. " Bring whatever on the table, ride me anywhere with you. I will be thankful '. That's me :)

2. Smile 😁 😊 : more than sex. Men get dopamine when they can make you smile 😁 😊.. because I smile a lot , they give everything they can give to me 

3. Play wise: you're smarter than him? Pretend to be dumb. They like girls who are smart 🤓 but not smarter than them. Although I graduated as the best student and the best GPA..yet I pretend to be dumb 😉 tricky? I know.. 

And when they need opinions , you talk with your smart solutions. They will appreciate it

4. Playful :: all men love playful woman ♀️ 👠 good mood, good vibes 🥰 a little naughty 

5. Pride : have independence while you let them lead. Men don't like women who are too dependent on him. They want to make your dreams reality..


Guess what? I get everything I want from men.. I do love men! :) they are loving, caring, amazing 😍 


FILIPINA THE PHILIPPINES


Di game 😀🎯 orang sering kira saya mestisa / Pinay. 
Berikut beberapa kata dalam bahasa Filipina 

S
Salamat : thank you 

ANDI EVENT ORGANIZER

 

Taslim : ballroom tanpa pilar


Memberikan informasi, lalu dibuat dealing table. Untuk bisa kerjasama.


Perkumpulan sosialita


Dari perwakilan rumah sakit yang ada di jogja ( edukasi) 


Seminar promosi / DIJUAL. 

Dijual : produk, dapat makan, bisnis oportunity. Pembiayaan dari pihak penyelenggara.

PAPER BAGS

 




Glittery 🌟 


JUMPA ROTARIANS

 




MERCI MEDAN

 





ORGANIZATION


Almost 5 years I have been playing mafia 🎯🎮 game. It's a strategy game. I grew up in small, clanless, top 3, and the first clan. Basically I have many experiences.

CLANLESS

some events can't be done and we don't have clan buffs.

SMALL CLAN

small as long as it's active is good. But you can't grow and learn about leadership 

TOP 3 CLAN 

You can learn about merging 

FIRST CLAN 

I learned everything there.. and there are some points I wanna share.. went from American clan, European , the Philippines clan, Japan, German, Albanian, mix asians...the best is KSA...Saudi Arabia clan 


⚔️ You might be the Senior. But who becomes R4 and R5 are people who know about game and strategy. No matter how Senior / old players you are, without knowledge. You can't be R4.

⚔️ Don sorino is the top spender. A clan or an organization needs spenders. The must be powerful and contribute in resources in big way.

He is also suitable for inter clan connection 😃. Because he is powerful, 💪, other clans won't make a mess with him. Although it happens mostly because of afraid/😞 😣 fear 😨 🤯 but it's effective to handle the city 🏙️ 🌆 

⚔️ Stone crusher is the teacher of war / warlord..we need a person who can teach members about wars or strategy in deeper meaning. Like how to have armors etc. it's technical skills 

⚔️ Nje molle Apel is an events organizer. That's me 😁 I inform events and teach members in the simplest way possible and tell them the benefits if they do the events. ( For example they will get permanent something). Each Monday, I thank through 💌 📬 mail for top 3 donators / contributors inside clan. 

⚔️ Jhucy is the fuel of members. In case members can't login. She will manage their accounts gladly.. she also managing members.. we need someone that always online/ often online. Mingle if necessary 

⚔️ Daily players mostly R3 and R2.. they don't know or don't wanna participate about strategy. Active to play but not so big. And they login daily to play.. translate as reguler members 

⚔️ Wolf as R5 or we call as the boss. Doesn't have to be the strongest or the biggest. But he has to have knowledge about game 🎮 🎯/ old player with knowledge translate as president of the club 

⚔️ Alliance: usually small clans ask for protection or alliance. Make sure to pick clans with the same point of view 🪟.. translate to my leadership.. they are other clubs 


Additional ( from WAR Clan)

German girl : I forget her name..but she is good for mingle. We can use Jhucy to do that. But we need natural one.. it's called as member resistance..she will make sure people inside clan happy and say hello, talk to whoever online 


IMPORTANT MINDSETS 

It's better to divide ➗ tasks into small and make almost all people to have responsibilities.. although it's small 

Cop raid = 1 person 

Remember to donate gasoline= 1 person 

Any tasks you must give to people you trust so that all members should have responsibilities and stay longer to play together translate as per event = 1 person responsible. ⛳ Golf 🏌️ is one person, tennis 🎾 is one person, finding place is one person 

Clan size I managed 1-145 members..in average 60-145 members..

All members must contribute minimal and the top 3 must have recognition translate as membership but some people want to contribute more. We must announce thank you to top 3

VISA REJECTION

  Today...for the first time I get rejected.. said 214b... no strong ties to my home country. Why wanna come to the US? I said because I vis...