Ghosting or something like that.. well, I am the person who can easily block people If you disturb my peace π I am not that cruel. Hahaha π€£ just sometimes
Have you ever been in a argument and then the person doesn't reply you and goes away?
This case.. let's think with our head π£️ not heart ❤️π
π¬ this person needs time to process information and needs to make a judgment.
π¬ He probably no longer interested in you. When I am not interested in someone ( although I am as a woman π ), I won't reply his text as simple as that. But if I find out that person is a good person, then I will probably be friends and come connect together when I feel I want
WHAT YOU SHOULD DO?
it's hard if you have a moon Libra ♎⚖️ like me, we like good relationship, like a loving family one.. but... Use your head π£️
π Text him in a day but never text him again and again ( wait until he replies). No need to keep texting him. Men love chasing. Don't come to him as a victim. LEAVE HIM π
❓ What to do if he doesn't reply after I give some time? Well, LEAVE HIM π it's hard, I know.. but he doesn't respect you ( by replying to your messages). So why you should keep being there for someone who doesn't even care about your feelings!
Then enjoy your life ππ
I guarantee, sooner or later he will say hello π€
That's the time when we should kick him out π€£ hahaha π I am sorry guys, but I did it to men.. Because a gentlemen knows how to behave, he treats woman with kindness, he won't let a woman π ♀️ waiting unexplained for a long time.. if he keeps you waiting, he is not a person you should put inside your small circle
FOR GHOSTERS
I believe at the point of your life, you'll feel bored. Keep starting and going from a person to a person. You lose your time to learn about relationships ππ if I am a ghoster, I will be so tired π©π΄π€
FOR VICTIMS
Please π₯Ίπ understand some people aren't ready mentally. They are old enough but they are not ready for commitment or even friendships..
They might be loners, or weirdos ( my man said it π. Not me ), or weak men ( my UK friend said it )..
When it's happening to you, pull yourself together and let's be strong.. it's not your fault. It's them. Don't blame yourself.. love π yourself ❤️
FOR BEAUTIFUL WOMEN / MEN OUT THERE
I got ghosted twice. 1 online 1 real life. Both of them weren't my type. I was too kind. I thought all people will adore me π π I got ghosted too. I prayed that they will love me forever ♾️
But the online 1 I finished him. He came back after weeks or 2 months π³ and I said publicly online to his friends that I blocked him. He pm me. I blocked him π€£ his friends contacted me asking me to unblock. He misses me ( his friends said it ). I said : no. He ghosted me first. It feels good to block him and announce it and " humiliate " him elegantly , publicly π ( kick π¦Άπ¦΅ out) π
The reality one is still in process. I am so ready for the revenge baby, don't play with me ☺️ πππ ( I will update)..
TIPS :
π make sure to know his friends, family when you're dating. So that we they ghost π» you, you can revenge ( revenge is not good morally, but we play with immoral people, so be it). And revenge here is not by doing stupid things. Revenge = you end the relationship in their eyes and leave them. You ghost / leave them back. Fast. Or you can show off your new relationships. The positive way of revenge, darling πππ
π Make sure to know his home π‘π or his works. Or details about him / her. Usually when they give you love bombing , they will give informations you want to know..
π If they do naughty pictures or videos of you. Make sure to do the same. They can't blackmail you when you can blackmail them back π
NOTE :
this article based on my experiences. If you wanna do safer ( normal way ), you can search Google on it. Usually is by letting them go / leaving them and you go through process to strengthen your mental back.
Good luck, may you all find good people and not get ghosted π
The end : none ghosted me. I am a committed relationship with the one I thought he ghosted me.. communication is the KEY π️π
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